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17 days completed, but need some advice.

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by henrywilson, Jul 17, 2019.

  1. Jul 17, 2019 #1
    henrywilson

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    HI,
    AM 27 years old. I Completed 17 days without PM in the past 5 years. Before I Always had a thought like i can stop doing M, but cant stop watching P. Later, realized P is more dangerous than M. So i really wanted to stop watching P. Tried a lot after joining No fab. I tried and failed more than 20 times... Now i am really happy for completed 17 days without PM. But from yesterday am not feeling good.. I have random thoughts about the P videos i watched before. I dont know i can continue this for longer. Please any one tell me thinking about the videos and getting erection is also dangerous? Am doing this sometimes.
     
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  2. Jul 17, 2019 #2
    Haddock

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    Hi,

    first of all why your counter indicates 168 days ? It's important that you keep it up to date. Concerning your thought about P, that's normal don't worry. Try to stay busy so that you have something else in mind. You may have to deal with urges. Cold shower is a good cure ! You must try to avoid those thoughts otherwise you will eventually relapse. So try to see some friends and to do something to escape from such thoughts.

    Good luck ! ;-)
     
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  3. Jul 17, 2019 #3
    Ogikubo

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    That's that little demon in your mind trying to trick you. He's a little loudmouth and he wails and kicks when he doesn't get what he wants. Shut him down -now. Say to yourself, "Fuck you, porn. I'm not your little bitch."
    Personally, I hate using such language, but when I got angry, really angry about my addiction, I was able to deal with it more proactively. A little anger is good sometimes.
     
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  4. Jul 17, 2019 #4
    Tao Jones

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    This battle begins in our minds, and that is where we must fight and win it. When that thought comes into your mind, acknowledge it for the lie that it is, and replace the lie with the truth. Then, live in the truth instead of in the lie. PMO always lies to you. The truth will set you free.
     
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  5. Jul 18, 2019 #5
    henrywilson

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    Thanks for your reply.. please tell me how can i update the counter?
     
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  6. Jul 18, 2019 #6
    Tao Jones

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