Hee! Since I'm new here, I introduce myself as the 21 year old guy from the Netherlands who loves playing the guitar and drums, who loves playing sports like basketball, soccer (football). I cannot complain about life, I live in a loving home and all and have good friends to hang with! The reason I joined this Nofap account is because I have watched too many porn vids and so I fapped too many times, and I figured out that trying to stop is not that easy...This first day of July is a great day to stop it forever I hope. My goal with nofap is for 90 days, but afcource I won't stop after the 90 days. I hope that I can get motivated by this forum too hold on. Since 2 or 3 years there was not one month without porn and fapping, I hated it everytime after it was over.. The longest time without it was like 28 days. Those 28 days were great sadly it went wrong but I do not want to give up. I hope during my challenge I can also be een inspiration for others! Lets say the war against pmo has begon! Later!
Ah, a fellow Dutchman! I definitely recommend creating a counter like I have in my signature, creating a journal thread, or both. It can really help, I think.
Hey Erwin, welcome! Don't worry, if you managed to stay of PMO for 28 days you will probably reach your goals if you stay focused and motivated. Some of us are already struggling to stay of P for two days (Uche people like me). Are you going for the "dead 90"? Btw, you have added 3 counters now, I suggest you delete 2 xD. I had some trouble putting it in too, let me know if you need any more help with it. Good luck with your 'war' against PMO! Groetjes
Thanks for your encouragement! I started a jourrnal: 30 to 60 to 90 days. My first goal is to reach 30 days, than I will focus on 60 days and after that on 90 days! Thats the reason I have three counters now First I tried to go for 90 days, but I failed quickly, so I broke it down a little. I am actually 24 hours and 30 minutes clean from pmo! I don't know how if I can change that on my counters.. But furthermore, I wish you all the best, I believe we can overcome this!
I unfortunately relapsed yesterday. But I won't give up, I'll try again and be more cautious this time!