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23 years old male want to start 90 days hardmode

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by vrpro, May 26, 2017.

  1. May 26, 2017 #1
    vrpro

    vrpro Fapstronaut

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    Hi, I am vrpro, 23 years old male

    Start meet with porn videos at 12 years, mastrubated at that time, now masturbate 15 times in a month (once masturbation per 2 days). Now i'm late to graduate and late for doing my thesis for undergrad program because my mind is being distracted a lot with these things.

    Want to stop all at once -- for rebooting 90 Days -- have tried all methods from previous attempts --like religion-based methods-- but still no effect and keep doing all again.

    Current related background :
    - Have not drink any alcoholic drink yet (and will never-lifetime)
    - Have not smoke any nicotin cigarete yet (and will never-lifetime)
    - Have not sex intercourse any woman yet (still virgin and will sex after I married)
    - 1 time : doing oral stimulation to my girlfriend vagina - will stop for rebooting
    - many times : kissing my girlfriend- will stop for rebooting
    - many times : touching GF's boobs- will stop for rebooting

    Luckiliy, Have found nofap website is part of my desperation and misclick using VPN at reddit (because reddit is being blocked by my counter), and I found that this website is what i'm looking for for so long. Finally I found this precious gem here.

    To support my will for 90 days hard mode, I've destroyed all source of porn whom I've downloaded from various website maybe in gigabytes worth of storage. I've also given my Isolated Earphone to my friends, so now I do not have earphone to listening to porn videos and watching porn without sound is not turning me on. I've also limited my internet quota at the point so that i will not be able to download porn videos anymore.

    My boarding house is full of people, so that I've also open the curtain of my window and do not lock my door before i sleep, so that if I will relapse, I will be shame if anyone will found me while I'm jerking off.

    I've also do not meet my girlfriend anymore (but I still in relationship with here) because my girlfriend is so sexy that makes me always turn on if I watch her. I've not talked yet about this reason, however she is in busy while in her medical college so maybe that will be okay.

    And also I'm Moeslem and Ramadhan (the month of fasting) will come in no time, and this will be another support for me to make my "90 days of hard mode of PMO" will come true.
    you.

    Sorry for long explanation. I just want to write what i'm thinking.

    Wanna start no PMO all at one for 90 days start from 14.00 GMT+7 (I'm in Indonesia)

    Probably anybody here will join me, thank you
     
    vrpro, May 26, 2017
    vrpro, May 26, 2017
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  2. May 26, 2017 #2
    w95chris

    w95chris Fapstronaut

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    Well good for you taking the decision to stop now you just have to withstand the journey and make it though.

    Now I want to say that since you have a girlfriend but don't want to have sex until marriage (nothing wrong with that just mentioning it) my opinion is that you should definitely not stop seeing her. I mean this will only harm your relationship. That is what I think but in the end up to you

    It is good that your boarding house is full of people and that will be helpful indeed but the urges are what you should worry about because they mess with the way you think and make you do stupid things that will keep you from your goal.

    I also think that talking to your girlfriend about your addiction and that you are fighting it will be helpful so she can understand. Imagine just not seeing her anymore out of the blue wouldn't that be suspicious and strange

    You must have dedication to your goal and not let anything keep you from it. In the first few days it will be difficult to move on because your body and brain will be in "Emergency mode" since watching P and M were part of your routine. Many times you will be tempted to to certain things that will lead you to your old habits but you must say no and keep on the right track otherwise you are dead in the water

    I hope you can make it through and be free of this habit like many of us did and then write you success story so people will be inspired by how you did it
     
    w95chris, May 26, 2017
    w95chris, May 26, 2017
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