70+ Days on Hard mode.... Benefits

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  1. The Real JokeErr

    The Real JokeErr Fapstronaut

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    Hi All,

    I am on my 70+ days streak, my goal is PMO (Semen Retention). I started this with about 20% confidence in NoFap.

    But now, my world has changed. I believe 1000% in noFap

    Just a little background, I am in my late 30's, separated, not at all great looking (but have been regular to the gym).
    After starting nofap, around day 20 or 24, I noticed that i was getting attention from the females. And not just attention, some were smiling or just starting normal conversations. This happened on and off, so few days I would get attention and other days, I would not. Past day 60, it became more consistent. And then , magic happened. An attractive young female (about 28-29 year old) approached me and asked me out for a date! I have known her from the past 1 yr. but she never seemed interested in me before. Now she is head over heels falling for me.

    Another thing that happened was that people started paying attention to me. Earlier, I would speak and someone would either speak over me or would not pay attention to what I am saying. Now when I speak, I get 100% undivided attention of people. I feel more confident, attractive and look younger!

    NoFap has changed my life. I honestly don't care if it's placebo effect, due to semen retention or just a chemical reaction in my brain. It works because I believe in it. This is how faith works and things move.

    So have 100% faith in the process. This is not a punishment, cherish the journey and reap the benefits
     
  2. Vairagya

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    Wonderful. I am doing this for peace of mind and to improve my focus. Inspiring words from you.
     
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  3. CS1

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    Great man, what about the urges? Which days were the hardest ?
     
  4. The Real JokeErr

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    Thanks! The first 2 weeks are the worst. Then the urges subside. I felt P.A.W.S were more problematic than urges. I still get a few days where i feel extremely sad. But this is part of the process.
     
  5. Vairagya

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    I am on 8 day. Not feeling sexual urges as such but feeling anxious. It's like somethings in going on in background but I am oblivious. I am not feeling like Doing it but anxiety. Hope I will go through it.
     
  6. Homo Deus

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    Thank you for sharing, I am happy for you! Good luck!
     
  7. Espi1971

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    Thank you for sharing this! I wish you continued success on your newfound path.
     
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  8. Nedved_43

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    Congratulations mate!
     
  9. Protagonist

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    Congratulations man!

    I just wanted to ask, when did you start experiencing withdrawals, and what were the symptoms?
     
  10. Eaglevision_2019

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    This is an inspiring story. I have experienced some of those benefits, they are real. My greatest challenge right now is objectifying women. Like a great deal of women I see, I find myself thinking sexually about them. Any insight from you guys?
     
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  11. The Real JokeErr

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    P.A.W.S started after 2 weeks. I experienced extreme mood swings, Anhedonia, and body pain. The worst is over, but some days, I still feel demotivated
     
  12. The Real JokeErr

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    Buddy, you would need to consciously look away and break your train of though if you start objectifying women. I used to chant a mantra to divert my attention and break the habit. Even now, If my thoughts wander, I chant and move my eyes away. It can be any mantra, chant or affirmation, the objective is to divert attention. Give it a try!
     
  13. Vairagya

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    On day 9 felt some urges. But I controlled. Normal now. We will not surrender.
     
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  14. Uzair_khan

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    Rate your errection strength/hardness out of 10. Before and after reboot. And at what day did you get your first morning wood.
     
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  15. The Real JokeErr

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    Buddy, I am still in reboot. The beauty of semen retention is that I do not care about erection or morning wood. Everyone has a different body and level of addiction. Currently I can get hard by thinking about women or if a girl talk to me in a suggestive way. I used to get an early morning wood at 4 AM after 40 days of noFap (Crazy, i used to get up and then it was hard for me to sleep). Now i get a good morning wood on some days, but no pattern.
     
  16. Uzair_khan

    Uzair_khan New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks great bro. Keep it up
     
  17. hb020

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    Congratulations!! So inspiring!
    I hope to be there someday, still nervous for those difficult moments or like you say lonely days as I have yet to face them. I just know it’ll be worth it but hope to resist the urges when they come
     
  18. The Real JokeErr

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    Buddy, look at the positive side of things. Just see my post in Dating during Reboot section, you will understand what I am saying.

    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/in-a-dilemma-need-help.266096/#post-2420262
     
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  19. The Real JokeErr

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    Way to go! we are here to support you.
     
  20. quit@porn

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    Inspiring words ... Happy to hear that
     
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