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90 Day Success - New Job, New Car, New Girlfriend!

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Romans61, Dec 30, 2017.

  1. Romans61

    Romans61 Fapstronaut

    I made it, just past the 90 day mark.

    My life has changed dramatically the past three months...since stopping all masturbation and porn viewing. I won't ever look back, and have been rarely tempted to engage in any of these things.

    My results are as followed...
    • Supreme increase in social confidence - this has led to me securing a new job with 75% better pay! Which has mean't I can buy a brand new Audi, not of huge significance but a good win nonetheless.
    • My "Game" with the opposite sex has skyrocketed - during the last three months, I have been on more dates and had more success with women than ever before. I even started dating a crush I had on this one girl in the office, that 9 who most of the guys in the office wish they had :)
    • Starting a business - I've started building two businesses I want to launch in 2018, I've had a real inner desire to start building and creating my own destiny, and to really become a man.
    • Got into the best shape - I had always been a regular at the gym, but my physique has actually gotten sharper over the last 3 months, this could be a coincidence but abstaining has actually helped fuel my workouts and dietary efforts.

    I've had a real conviction over these few months that pornography and masturbation inhibits the ability of a man, to simply be a man. The positive effects have been evident for me. Sure I had a 2 week period of supreme flatline, but its so worth it. The 5 seconds of orgasm are so insignificant to the gains made in life via abstinence.

    Keep going guys, it really is worth it.

    Any questions please inbox or reply on this thread, I will be happy to help.
  2. NewLifeForGood86

    NewLifeForGood86 Fapstronaut

    Those are some unbelieveable benefits in 3 months only. Thank you for that short yet very inspiring post. I have a question. When did you start feeling the increase in social confidence to the degree that you felt easier doing the above mentioned things?
  3. Ton25

    Ton25 Fapstronaut

    What a nonsense, all because NoFap lol
  4. Former_CD

    Former_CD Fapstronaut

    Congratulations and good work! Keep it up.
  5. Romans61

    Romans61 Fapstronaut

    At around the 2 week mark I really started to feel the effects and peaked. After then, I flatlined for a week or two and you feel like an empty shell with no drive. At the 4-6 mark you start to increase in drive, social confidence booms and it feels natural.

    In short, Id say I felt sustainable increases around the 5-6 week mark when the flat line has passed and I was at my normal baseline.
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  6. Romans61

    Romans61 Fapstronaut

    Placebo or not, NoFap has only changed my life for the better. I hope it does for yours also.
  7. Romans61

    Romans61 Fapstronaut

    Thanks bro, I hope you are going strong also.
  8. Amazing progress man!

    Good to see you making so much difference in your life in such a short time!
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  9. Little kitty

    Little kitty Fapstronaut

    Wow Congratulations
    I hope i can do it to. . . .
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  10. Thank you for sharing, did you abstain completely from sex or only from O'ing?

    Whats your take on oogling girls

    thanks for the inspiration man
  11. What type of job u have secured that makes u to be able to buy a new audi?
  12. Romans61

    Romans61 Fapstronaut

    I completely abstained. My take on checking out Women whilst you are undertaking NoFap is this. I personally feel you shouldn't do it and should be actively trying to fight the urges to do so. Why? Well 1. it is trigger for lustful desires and you are more likely to want to jack off and watch porn. 2. NoFap for me mean't almost completely denying my sexual desires (still date, kiss etc), and focus on personal development. If you are tempting your brain by oggling girls, I don't think thats helpful if your goal is to not masturbate or watch porn.

    I hope thats helpful for you.

    Stay strong!
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  13. Romans61

    Romans61 Fapstronaut

    I currently work in finance in private banking.

    If you want to make money working for someone else, join a service industry (banking, accounting, surveying, engineering) etc, or become a sales person. Combining these both will mean you can earn the most money working for someone else. If you want to make serious money, you need to work for yourself and become and entrepreneur of sorts.

    Stay strong.
  14. All my life, I never thought that i will work for someone. Because, I wanted to become an entrepreneur. Now at the age of 23, i am teaching physics and math in a high school. But i don't want to be a teacher my whole life. That's why i am trying to indulge in 2 to 3 businesses. And i hope, I will become a successful businessman in future with the helpof No pmo hard mode.
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  15. Karan ghuman

    Karan ghuman Fapstronaut

  16. Romans61

    Romans61 Fapstronaut

    *** Update - now want to include cold showers and 5am get up to this for extra personal development and productivity ***
  17. You trying to say when i stop watching porn i get new audi. Sounds good to me.
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  18. Are you saying you didn’t have this confidence and wouldn’t have been able to attract females prior to your 90 days?
  19. @Hummingbird

    @Hummingbird Fapstronaut

    what is your opinion about pornography which it makes you never return to it?
    I always wanted to know how you guys think about this that you succeed this fast?

    and what is the most important thing helped you to succeed?
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    RobinCoenBrosFan Fapstronaut


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