A less discussed subject. Women and porn.

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Di.Do.555, Jun 20, 2020.

  1. Di.Do.555

    Di.Do.555 Fapstronaut

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    I have met 3 women lately.
    I to be honest , i was very disturbed.
    They were into vibrators and kink porn and all they want is a man to dominate and humiliate them.
    Oral on them won't do anything. Touching them romantically makes them feel nothing.

    Is that normal?
    Are we really living the age of total destruction of the traditional courting?
    Are they too desensitised to feel anything other than the abnormal?
     
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  2. Gods_princess

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    I think you got a point. What porn and movies do is desensitization and conditioning in different areas (sex, behavior towards others, violence). If you see the same thing repeated over and over again you start to believe it’s normal. You also become conditioned to certain kinks if you start watching porn. I don’t say that the only reason those women like domination is because of their p preferences. They also might have traumatic experiences that led to this kind of abnormal preference or they might have “daddy issues” which basically means their dad didn’t show them love like he should have and now they are looking for a similar guy. To answer your question: Yes, I do believe that porn plays an extreme part in the demoralization if our society. And the times of traditional and “normal” courting are mostly over. But there are still certain areas where it’s as traditional as it has been (Christian churches where people wait until marriage etc.).
     
  3. Di.Do.555

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    Thanks for your reply.
    It makes me very sad as they aren't the average women , one of them was a model.
    I told her that she needs to try nofap and she liked the idea.
     
  4. PerseveranceToday

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    Thank god I'm not the only one noticing this. Pornography and our current sexual climate are not only distorting the sexual desires of men, but women too. Romance and intimacy are dead. Relationships increasingly seem to be coming from a place of lacking rather than a place of loving.
     
  5. Di.Do.555

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    Exactly. Itch my back and i itch ur back in return. No emotions , no romance and no connection.
     
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  6. Gods_princess

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    Sex was created to tie a husband and his wife together. But instead the partner / random person is being used as a masturbation tool / prostitute that should fulfill all desires.
     
  7. fredisthebes

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    Porn addiction and compulsive masturbation is much rarer among women but it DEFINITELY exists, and it is probably getting worse. It certainly gives an insight into what it is like for normal women who are unlucky enough to be going out with men with warped ideas about sex due to porn.

    I have a female friend who is starting to ask men about their porn habits early on in their dating life. I actually believe more and more people are waking up to the reality of porn as something ultimately damaging and unhealthy, rather than something liberating, and in a generation or two porn will be seen as something antisocial, unhealthy and immoral like smoking, drugs, excessive drunkenness, etc.
     
  8. Lol why not find women that are into courting if you like it so much?
     
  9. This is why I joined NoFap. Oral never did anything for me, romantic, connected sex made me feel uncomfortable and unfulfilled, and even when my fantasies came true I was completely numb during the experience. I think more women are PMO addicts than we realize, but women get to dress it up under some brand of feminism*. It's empowering to not rely on your partner for an orgasm, it's cool to watch as much porn as the boys because it breaks the stereotype that women have lower libidos, yada yada whatever.

    *I'm not hating on feminism, because there are too many different interpretations of feminism to give a blanket support or disapproval of all of them.
     
  10. Di.Do.555

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    That is a great post. Thanks.
     
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  11. Reborn16

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    I think it's something that may effect the popular opinion over time. There's over 1 million sign ups for the petition in relation to an issue with one porn site, so I agree that porn will in time be viewed as something to avoid.

    Sex toys are also an issue. Just as no girl can turn into a split-screen video... no guy can vibrate his junk... Both are less connected in times of natural intimacy.

    Maybe guys are like the canary in the coal mine? Many of us have seen the shiny lights, been burnt, and are either in the process of recovering, or recovered and bringing good news on the other side.

    3 out of 3 women may be concerning, but that's still a small group, I'm sure it would be easier to find 3 girls who simply don't watch porn, than to find 3 guys who didn't watch porn in the last month. But I may be wrong - such is the ease of secrecy with technology...

    You can't fix someone who doesn't see a problem, but if many women have this issue too then hopefully they weigh up the pros and cons.
    If they're aware of the side effects, and want to change, it's not a deal breaker in my opinion. Both sexes need to come back to reality I guess!
     
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  12. Could you send me there name, number ,and current photo and age? LOL
     
  13. What I really don't get is why would you care so much about someone not giving a dusty f about you? These terrible women clearly don't care if you die today so why would you care about them?
    Why not instead care about someone who cares about you?
     
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  14. Di.Do.555

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    It has nothing to do with them.
    It has to do with humanity and feminism.
    We all know that masculinity is long gone, now is the turn to ruin femininity.
    It hurts witnessing that.
     
  15. We all know... What?
    I don't know what you are talking about... Maybe the people YOU know in YOUR life that are not masculine/feminine or something. But that is not true to every human in the world.
     
  16. Reborn16

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    I think certain expressions of masculinity are changing, but maculinity itself is not gone or going away.

    There's lots of bad stuff going down. But if you believe that masculine and feminine traits are biological, rather than a social construct, then it's hard to imagine things changing too much in my opinion.

    There's also plenty of great role models and tangible changes happening in society, for men and women. It just doesn't look that way when we turn on the news and only hear the bad stories that sell more views.
     
  17. Di.Do.555

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    Social construct????
    The elite are drilling this shit in our brains day and night. Do u seriously believe that crap?
     
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  18. Reborn16

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    You may want to check my previous comment. I'm suggesting our masculine and feminine traits are biological and not social in origin.

    I try not to believe the mainstream media crap, without at least reading into it a little :)
     

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