A message from Yambo

Hello winners,

Today I subscribed to nofap, just to prevent another relapse. But also to share my story to you guys, give some tips and motivate other men.

I went on this journey a couple of years ago and my greatest streak is 114 days previous year and 90 days at the beginning of this year. Few months later I accomplished a streak of 34 and lots of 10-20ish streaks. Currently I'm on day 16.

I found last month a podcast on Spotify called "porn free radio" (great tip for all of you guys) and he was talking about getting into a community. I never did that. Never talked about it to anyone. So maybe I thought this is the key to success. Because I'm not a beginner of nofap, but I still relapse.

So 2 years ago I started a business and it goes pretty well. But when it goes not so good, I always tend to relapse (my mind: give me at least the fun of porn plz). So for me it's interconnected.

For me it's very hard to give myself NOT the pleasure of porn (even if I know it's extremely bad) for example when I do something I think it's great for the business and after a month I see it doesn't work and I need to think about another plan and so the previous month was wasted.

I also feel myself a bit isolated, YES I got friends, and YES I got a family (I live with my parents and my brother) and also YES I got an employee and I talk to customers almost everyday.. I still feel a bit isolated when I watch a movie at the end of the evening before bedtime, like: "is this it?" I enjoy the movie but, is there nothing else?

I see myself over several years living with my girlfriend (I don't have one today but I never worry about to find one) and have some kids and maybe a dog.. The future in my head for myself is very bright, but I still manage to feel empty inside. Well, maybe that's just life.

Anyways I think quit porn is the best choice a men can make. Also fapping is not the best choice. Orgasm is for me something natural and when I have a girlfriend in the future I don't hold back in weekends, lol.

Can someone relate to something I said?

PS: If someone wants to DM me to help each other out that's OK!

All the best,
Yambo

 

thanks man really appreciate, great advice!