loneliness

  1. G

    I've Become Incredibly Lonely

    Hi all, I don't know if I am posting this correctly or in the right forum, as I've never posted on this site before, but today I am looking for some advice. I'm reaching out to ask what people do to deal with being alone. For context, I left my home city to go to University, and I am currently...
  2. Gray_Warrior

    Not just romantic ones - Porn kills all relationships

    There's a whole forum on this site dedicated to rebooters in relationships and another one about dating during a reboot. But porn also kills other relationships. It certainly killed so many of mine. I'm a 20 y/o guy currently in college and boy am I lonely. There are many people I really admire...
  3. SirQwerty

    AI Girlfriends

    I'm embarrassed to admit that this is my latest vice, every time I get closer to freedom, something seems to come up. It's different having a "real" feeling conversation, and became another escape for me. I know this isn't healthy though, and it's just pathetic. I enjoy having the experience...
  4. Marcus113

    Isolation

    Once, I stumbled upon a video discussing a mouse experiment. The experiment involved placing a mouse in a cage with two water sources: one with normal water and one with drugged water. The mouse, unsurprisingly, chose the drugged water. However, when a few more mice were added to the cage, the...
  5. G

    Porn quitting Vs Loneliness

    So first of all i have Asperger's Syndrome, which is most known as "light" autism (it mainly affects the ability to understand other people thoughts or intentions). I'm trying to quit porn for a long time but i've relapsed many times because of the lack of hope of finding a girlfriend in the...
  6. SirQwerty

    Dealing with self-hatred

    I've come to realize I don't like myself, for the ways I keep making mistakes and falling into temptation and sin. I beat myself up over little things. I mean, I feel I've been struggling for too long. It's my fault, and I hate I'm not like the other guys thay can "man up" and overcome this. I...
  7. T

    I'm lonely because my Girlfriend started working onsite

    Hello people, I wanna share my story and needed some words. So me (24) and my Girl (24) has started dating 2017. Now during COVID19 we we're LDR and Decided to live with her, We work as Freelancer during 2020 and present, but now we are having financial problem, We had to apply on a onsite job...
  8. V

    Alone: An epidemic of loneliness

    I've felt terribly alone for the past 10+ years. I'm 45 years old now. I would have thought social media would have brought the 9 billion people on this planet closer together. However, there seems to be an epidemic of loneliness. There seems to be a lack of genuine interaction these days...
  9. SirQwerty

    I don't want to desire friends anymore (Vent)

    I'll start off by saying I've made improvements. I don't watch P anymore, and I'm not sending photos like I used to in chats. I had a good streak going and I've been dealing with loneliness better, but at night I feel awfully lonely and depressed. I hug and kiss my pillow at night, it's really...
  10. D

    Parasocial Relationships an aphrodisiac for being lonely and doing nothing

    We always talk about how porn and fapping disconnect us from real sexual fulfillment with a partner, but what is your view on parasocial relationships? Isn't it exactly the same? An easier way to connect and bond with people you don't know. No matter if you read the comments, surf the net, or...
  11. SirQwerty

    Something's wrong with me

    In the latter half of this year I've been feeling like no one understands me. This isn't in a self-pity type way, and I know this isn't necessarily true, but it has been the leading cause of my relapses. I enjoy being alone and have gotten quite used to it. I don't mind being around people but...
  12. SirQwerty

    Dealing with high libido. Sick and tired of it

    I'm really sick and tired of my libido given I don't want to indulge in it. For me it's not as much as a p*rn issue as it is an imagination/fantasy problem. I understand this is common given my age (19), and it probably doesn't help that I'm stressed most times and always...
  13. K

    is it just me ?

    is it just me or loneliness does hit different while on semen retention. like what i feel is i had been chasing women online back when i was wanking a lot and i was contempt. but right now there is a void. a sexual hunger to satisfy myself which i recognize developing in myself. it's like i feel...
  14. D

    I need help

    I have been exposed to MO since age 6 unintentionally when I started sleeping on my stomach and have done so ever since without knowing the consequences as a child. However, it had become such a habit that when I grew up until now, it's been so hard to overcome. I have premature ejaculation...
  15. E

    Can't keep streak due to loneliness

    In october last year I had a streak of 6 months and was very happy with my girlfriend (couple years). 1 week after my streak she broke up with me. After the break-up till now I went for 2/3 months and then I failed and then 2/3 months streak again. Today I failed again after 2 month streak. I...
  16. A

    Loneliness and anger

    Haven't fapped for about 3 weeks now, which don't really feel lika an eternity since my libido isn't the greatest (I'm 30+). But the thing is my porn addiction have not been about sexual urges for many years, but rather consolation. I'm sad, angry or bored and a couple of hours of porn tend to...
  17. L

    How it feels to be alone in life.

    That sense of helplessness, this piercing feeling that sinks deep into the body once you find yourself in this situation. I know this feeling by heart, i've always been like this. If we haven't met before, i'm a person with less than a few friends. Ever since i was a child, i had problems with...
  18. I

    I quit porn but I'm sad so many people still suffer from it

    I just want to express my thoughts and feelings about this, specifically onlyfans. I never paid for such a thing but I was thinking about it and I'm glad I never did because I realized how toxic and bad it can be. I remember a girl I liked from school rejected me and I thought to myself maybe I...
  19. jackcruiser800

    Please ask me how am i .

    I want to cry. Please just ask me some personal questions. Ask me anything pls
  20. K

    relapsed

    I don't know how to get rid of this feeling of loneliness i have inside of myself it fells like i am pretty useless and with nowhere to escape into. I'm done being a burden to people. I really am. I can't look myself in the eye and see a respectable person, i can't see anyone i feel empty. i...
  21. lemosiii

    The Main Triggers of a Relapse:

    I have found that the main reasons of relapsing can be fit into 3 categories: Loneliness, Stress, Triggers. Loneliness: You could also call this boredom. It's having nothing else to do may cause you to relapse. Without hobbies or (good) people to hang out with, you will be at a higher chance of...
  22. FaithWithGod

    Crushing NoFap but Depression Increasing

    I'm on 40+ Days of NoFap, but I've been going through some hard depression times lately I've just come to a new country & right now my college is closed till Feb. On top of that I just can't Vibe with my college friends who are all from a different but common country(& so they have their own...
  23. tawwab1

    Depornify your life

    Whenever I go to view the newest posts here, I find myself reading the first posts of newbies. After a while they seem to all sound the same: Argh, I’ve been struggling with PMO addiction for 7 years. My girlfriend cried when I couldn’t get it up, and now I’m depressed all the time and anxious...
  24. C

    Struggling Again. My loneliness is my undoing.

    After 69 days abstinence/semen retention i fell off. My loneliness forced me to go back to watching po*n because let's be honest, Po*n really takes the edge off loneliness. That's a fact. Now for some days now I'm not watching po*n but I'm seriously jacking off and I'm seriously scared for my...
  25. DOWN2SUCCEED

    Does loneliness feel good to you?

    Whenever I think of all my friends and acquaintances who are in loving relationships, I oftentimes reflect on my own status in that particular area. I think of how long I've gone without even being hugged by someone in a "romantic" sort of way (although I somewhat doubt romantic hugs are even a...
  26. RIMPY

    Regarding life

    so all this time i've felt like i've never been meant to have friends or have girlfriends. I thought it was some kind of curse and that i will never be happy but i think the only way to fix that is to somehow improve myself so i can attract better things into my life. Sure i have had friends...
  27. M

    I don't have any friends.

    I don't know what I'm supposed to do. I don't have any friends and no ability to make them. I just work and try to read the bible. Lately I have been watching porn instead. I need friends to text or if you're in Massachusetts possibly hang out with.
  28. CutToTheChase

    The more I fight the more I lose

    Lately I've picked up the fight and had some minor success with it. I had my first in a few years 2-week PMO-free-cycle. Then relapse and now 4th day. While not masturbating, I didn't run from reality but let it hit me full force. And it hit me hard. My business partner opened up and said...
  29. D

    Why am I feeling lonely even though a beautiful female friend of mine is talking to me?

    Why am I feeling lonely even though a beautiful female friend is talking to me right now ? This is usual urge time. Every day I feel the same headache , stress feeling in my head. I feel a loneliness feeling. I feel sad as none dont reply me. Today a beautiful female friend is talking to me in...
  30. ShadowFighter

    ULTIMATE CHALLENGE : 1 LIKE = 1 DAY OF NO PMO.

    Dear fellow fighters. This is the day we all come together as community, to join a challenge we all are involved in and be a part of. Every 1 Like in the poll (above) = 1 day of NO PMO! Lets support each other and give each other a higher goal to achieve! this is the best way to show support...
  31. mentorr

    24hrs of feeling CURED

    Yesterday, for a reason I can't quite work out, I felt 100% healed. I spent just under a day feeling pretty much back to normal. I cannot express in words how good I felt. It is one thing to sit online and read other peoples recovery stories, but it is totally another to feel cured after years...
  32. D

    My Experience with Loneliness

    I have been a social butterfly for as long as I could remember. However, there are two major problems with my relationships (both platonic and non-platonic). 1. None of my friendships are extended to after school settings. -> Over the past few years, I have moved nomadically from friend group...
  33. D

    Positively forging an identity, betrayal and a vigorously aged mind by stress

    After losing almost everything - in psychological terms - as I approached 18yo (that exaggeration has a purpose) turning inward seemed like such a sound choice that for a while. After registering down my main issues and patterns of thought-process, all my identity started gravitating around...
  34. C

    Don't know what to talk with someone.

    I have been practicing nofap for 8 months and I have relapsed/reset more than 50 times. The problem with me is that I want to talk with others, but I don't know on what topic should I talk.For example, there is a girl I want to talk, but most of the time I am not able to talk to her due to the...
  35. M

    I feel so broken

    I've been stuck in a cycle of relapse for weeks now and it's draining me physically and mentally. It seems like everytime I try to stop I realize how isolated and lonely I am and I just can't cope. I know really well what sexting and porn do to me, but I keep choosing it because it's somehow...
  36. VinceLaCroix

    Stuck on one month/venting

    I'm on day 40. Last year I had a streak of around 200 days, but due to OCD resurfacing viciously, I lost it, it was around April or so. Since then I can hardly make it past first month, sometimes like 35-40 days is usually my limit. After that period of time comes some sort of delirium, in which...
  37. K

    relapsed rn

    i really want to hold hands with someone and i wanna be told that they love me.in real time.i don't have anyone i can talk to.it feels stupid,wierd and my addiction makes it worse.i just need some friends i can talk to.nothing else,have been trying SR and the biggest problem i face is energy...
  38. Francis X.

    I know I'll be a virgin forever because of my paraphilia.

    I will be a virgin forever because I am a zoophile. Sometimes I have romantic and sexual fantasies about dogs. I don't know what to do about it. I will never live with anyone. I can't even live with an animal, because then I would want to have sex with it. I want to be with a human, just not...
  39. D

    How to get women

    Hey guys what is up? I was wondering how you manage to know new women to date? In my case, I don't go out anymore on saturdays or any other day because I don't have a circle of friends anymore. So what's the best way for me to know new girls? I go to the gym (but I don't think it's a place...
  40. silex_jedi

    i need a hug...

    hello, i am a bit (correction : A LOT) tired, and almost going to bed. so i apologise for the incoming rant, put on some soft rock 70's music () and come along for this short reading journey if you dare.... where to start ? i have not fapped since 8 days ago so that's good ! HOWEVER : my...
  41. Yambo

    A message from Yambo

    Hello winners, Today I subscribed to nofap, just to prevent another relapse. But also to share my story to you guys, give some tips and motivate other men. I went on this journey a couple of years ago and my greatest streak is 114 days previous year and 90 days at the beginning of this year...
  42. S

    Cuckold thoughts and porn addiction. Please HELP. Literally dying for help ...

    This may be a slightly long read but it’s because i want to let you know all the details as I’m in DIRE NEED for HELP. So I’m a brown guy around 22, Pretty muscular and a handsome dude. I’ve never had any issues flirting with and picking up girls. In fact they’ve even admitted to me that I was...
  43. D

    Read this and tell me If you feel the same

    I was thought how pathetic is to be 23 years old and have had sexual expriences only with your hand watching fake girls on your screen fucked by someone else. It's really a pussy thing. I feel like a damn pussy not a man. If my friends would discover this I'd be mocking for the rest of My...
  44. R

    Can't connect with anyone

    This is my first post on this site. I'm a 20yo guy, working at a factory and going to university this autumn. Never had a gf, not even close, never had any kind of intimacy so I'm pretty lonely and inexperienced. I was never taught to socialize, I was pretty sheltered. Of course porn filled that...
  45. D

    Let's be friends

    See I'm lonely and you're lonely so hit me up. Simple. I'm polite and I don't have any friends plus I'll be your accountability partner.
  46. A

    For the men, am I wrong in thinking that loneliness is the reason you're perpetually single?

    As an average man, you'll never make it with online dating. All those short and ugly men with girlfriends you see outside? They met their partner using social circles and mutual friends. Most perpetually single and sexless men simply lack the social life needed to get a woman. Example: Imagine...
  47. D

    I feel like I brought loneliness on myself.

    I have had an attraction to fat women since I was 9 years old, but I never really dated any because of peer pressure due to the stigma surrounding BBWs. Everyone was making fun of them and making fun of the men who valued them. Now I'm lonely because I don't have a BBW with me. I want to stop...
  48. ArazzoDiGiada

    It all started with an AP group - A healing journal from loss

    It's a closing circle. I finally reached 90 days of no PMO just when you decided to leave... So, this is my story. I came to this forum many times in the past years. In late 2019 I was searching for an AP group of gay people. In this group, I met K. K. has become my AP partner. We used to chat...
  49. D

    I want to stop, but how? This is draining me so bad...

    Hey there, I just relapsed this morning when I woke up horny, again. Maybe some of you guys can relate to it... That impulsive doing gave me no time to even think twice. I feel like I have no control over my mind, over my body. I really don't know what drives me to do it. I did not use porn to...
  50. PornisMyGirlfriend

    Loneliness, Extreme Porn Addiction, Total Absence of Love and relationship problems with Girls

    Introduction info: " Patience (to read and understand) is the companion of wisdom. " My post is long but it´s necessary. Hello everyone, I tried to post my topic on reddit but it seems like it didn´t work. I posted on another forum and faced numerous Trolls mocking me.....I reported them but...
  51. U

    On 45 days

    One of the things that happens when you give up an addiction that has basically run your life - whether it's fapping, food, alcohol, weed, getting angry or gambling- Is that the sun comes up in your soul and you say to yourself, "OMG...all that time wasted. Wish I could get that time back."...
  52. Agent

    What loneliness did to me

    I have always been somewhat lonely through my life, yet the past 5 years have been really bad when it comes to this, i became so socially isolated to the point where the only people i would talk to was my family that lives with me and no one else, i would sometimes even find difficulty speaking...
  53. Z

    Day 1

    Hi fellas :) I'm 23 years old, and today decided to do something with my porn and mastrubation addiction and found out about nofap. i dont have any romantic or sexual experience, and never really brought myself to chat up with girls. i tend to get frightened by this and saying to myself that i...
  54. U

    About this loneliness

    I am writing to you from a city 1,800 miles away from where I live. Before the pandemic, I traveled all through the year for my job, and loved it. I would take care of business in 1-2 days, then stay at an Air BnB or similar for, say, another 10 days. Since I can work anywhere, I just worked...
  55. mick5643

    Whats the point?

    Hello everyone. Recently I have been really down and without any energy/motivation. I think that im in a flatline and on top of it i was sick 2 days. I peeked once today but didnt M or O. My mental health is in shambles, I go to a therapist and even though it helps my career is very demanding...
  56. Rodrigov600

    $20k Debt, Disowned By Family, Living In Streets During Winter

    I remember rain falling on the roof of the car I just bought. A used car I signed no paperwork for but gave $1k for. It reeked of cigarette smoke as my almost soft smelling blankets covered me in the back seat of my new car. I looked outside my car's tinted window as rain drops slid off the...
  57. WildPig13

    Tried to post it on the Reddit community but it wouldn't let me for some reason, so here it goes:

    So, the other day I read somewhere over here the case of a guy who relapsed because of having been sexting with his gf back and forth and that got me thinking... For some reason I can't even get my "significant other" (not quite sure of calling her my gf, although I know for sure that she's not...
  58. REDLIPSTICKPOP

    I feel so trapped...

    So, I don't want anything really, but to just be around people again? I feel like I've lost all my social skills during this pandemic. For context, I live with an immuno-compromised family member, and basically if they were to get COVID-19, that would be pretty scary and very life-threatening...
  59. Aléxandros

    How do you cope with loneliness while on NoFap, in quarantine?

    Hi everyone, after 437 days of retaining, my urges for porn became urges to meet real women, real girls, and start having s or relationships with them, way healthier than porn. Just wanted to ask how do you cope with this internal struggle of meeting a girl and wanting a relationship when...
  60. FezMan76

    I found the cause

    Today, after another relapse from this ongoing streak of urges and failures, I think I have finally found the root cause of my PMO problem. And that is... loneliness and repressing myself from being open to people and from making friendships and relationships. I know that it isn't stress from...
  61. M

    PMO Killed My Desire for Women

    I've always been known as the "shy" person in the room, or the one that is picked on for not engaging in conversation, especially when it involves talking with women or people I don't know. This could be due to a lot of things, such as genetics or the circumstances of my childhood. But a lot of...
  62. theshifter

    Vicious Cycle

    Hi, Any of you ever feel like you're in a position where you want a relationship to happen, but it never happens? And when something does spark somehow somewhere with a girl, she ends up being just friends because you don't seem to get any obvious signals from her? I'm 26 this year, and...
  63. Urbancottage30

    This is me.

    Just starting(again) my nofap journey. The worst thing about myself are both my aloofness and my tendency to become enraged. Contradictory,yes,but nevertheless... I find disagreeing with 99% of the throng on everything,especially when it comes to health and ideas about "the good life". So tired...
  64. D

    Solitude

    I'm slowly starting to come to terms with my solitude ; maybe I am even starting to like it. I haven't spoken to anyone in weeks and I no longer care. It is so quiet in this house that you could hear a needle drop. I have gotten to know myself so well over the course of this past year. I listen...
  65. A

    Porn as a coping mechanism

    Hello guys I feel like I use porn as a coping mechanism for my loneliness and lack of intimicy with people on my life. I'm especially addicted to porn when I can interact with other people. Either if it's just chatting about some kinks we have, Roleplaying or also trading porn. I think I do that...
  66. D

    Loneliness and hate

    I already post this thread in another section, but I think here there are more people that might be in the same way as myself. When I was a teenager I used to be attracted by females my age. I'm talking about crazy falling in love with them. I don't remember but I think I was already watching...
  67. D

    A mix of angriness, loneliness and depression

    Hi, Here's another reason porn and masturbation are terrible, terrible. I have started myself at the age of 10. It is when my mental state got worse year after year. I was told to be - almost everyday - a bright kid, all smile, curious. All this fap has made it worse and made me a very angry and...
  68. D

    How to stop masturbating

    Hi, I'm 19 and I often can't stay focused while doing things. My mind often think some wild stuffs which I don't want to, but I feel like I just can't control it. I rarely watch pornography, but I still masturbate through fantasising, which is horrible. Sometimes I feel lonely because I just...
  69. C

    Hermit Life

    I've always been an hermit, since i was a kid. This kind of lifestyle led me to increase my knowledge and my phisical fitness way more than my peers. But the only thing holding me back from a truly complete life is porn. I want to quit it so bad, but every time it crawls back in my mind. It's...
  70. R

    Hypnotherapy success or failures?

    Hi, I put this thread into the problematic sex forum yesterday but of course it equally fits here so I hope you will forgive my repetition. I've summarised everything I wrote so far below, any comments would be very gratefully received. I basically wonder who has tried hypnosis as a way to help...
  71. R

    Has anyone tried hypnotherapy?

    Hi all, I've never actually contributed to this forum before but the more I have read, the more I see the same issues coming up over and over again to do with shame, guilt, powerlessness, anger, frustration and so on and so on. So many people looking for solutions to fix their symptom, but the...
  72. G

    Sadness, loneliness, no motivation (Day 18)

    Hello everyone, I've hit day 18 of NoFap, which I'm really proud of, since my last highest streak was 14 days... in April.... and since then I have relapsed every day, until my current streak. Up until about Day 13 of my streak, I was feeling amazing! It was this uncontrollable adrenaline and...
  73. H

    Quarantine and nofap

    Hey ,perhaps it's the weirdest story you will hear about in nofap so please be patient and give your opinion . So I actually discovered nofap accidentally ,and my last journey was like for +180 days and it was the best thing I do in my life ,people started to love me for being who I am ,I was...
  74. Slippers

    Any Tips to Survive Covid-19 While Alone?

    Hi everyone, this is my first post on the forums. I’ve been struggling with pmo for more than half my life (currently 26yo). Tried many times to stop and I’m just now discovering/trying NoFap. Anyway as the title suggests, does anyone have any tips for home isolation? I currently work from...
  75. H

    long distances, relapses, urges etc.

    Hi Guys (and girls), Since a while I have a (long distance) relationship with an amazing girl and I truly love her so f*cking much that we wanna live together and start a new chapter in our life with each other. And the darkside is: We did several attempts on having sex and from that part on...
  76. D

    Telegram group for lonely Fapstronauts

    I am thinking about making one, specially because I also am very lonely 55. If you are interested message in the post or pm
  77. Quantum Dynamite 1999

    Procrastinating my university degree quite a lot, and I've tried a bunch of stuff to break out of it

    Yo everyone, I know I haven't posted much on here, given that I actually forgot about this forum the moment I joined over a year ago. But just a little bit of context, I'm a university student doing an undergrad physics degree and I'll be turning 21 years old in much less than a week. I ended...
  78. MixerAwersome

    I would like to make new friends

    Hi everyone, I'm not a very expressive person but I would like to make new friends, as I'm feeling lonely these days. I can't go out of my house and can not interact with anyone because of the covid19 pandemic. Recently I had a big fight with my long-distance girlfriend, and we are not talking...
  79. L

    Due to lockdown & loneliness aggravated my problems

    I am 30-year-old male, and married. I did not have any sexual problems with my partner. but for last four months, I am away from my partner. Initially I thought I will use this time to complete my assignments, workout and good habits. I started well. I completed my most of the target for the...
  80. L

    All my romantic attempts result in the same story :(

    (Forgive my english pls) Hi all, I'm a 23 y/o guy who has never had a girlfriend. I used to be shy in the past years, but I have become more "selfsecure". Now I have the power to make laugh some person. I am really really devoted when I'm trying to date someone and truly dedicated, taking care...
  81. B

    Life Reality check

    Well, kind of strange that only now I post first time in this forum. I've been reading many stories about loneliness and I want to share mine with you. I have been doing smart work since February and I got back to my hometown to avoid paying rent in the city. I hate my work because it is so...
  82. LOSEmyselftoSAVEmyself

    My Opinion About Loneliness

    I don't know if this will help any guys out, but I want to share some experience. When I was divorced in 2017, I went through a lot of bitter loneliness. Trying to get a date was impossible. But what I started to realize was that I might be on my own for some time. If that was the case, I...
  83. I

    New to the forum, In need of encouragement

    Hey everyone, I'm a young male in my 20s who has been using PMO as a coping mechanism (or more of an escape) for anxiety and depression ever since my teenage years. It has been really bad at some stages (I'm talking masturbating 3-6 times a day pretty much every day of the week), pretty bad at...
  84. PhantomAssassin

    I'm better alone ?

    I am better alone and I don't need nobody to feel good. "But when you get to the "top" who'll be there to take a photo" Imma take a f*ing selfie. No, wait... I'm not going to even mention that I'm this high, that I feel this good. "Why?" Believe me... People can ruin everything you're...
  85. DanForABetterLife

    Lonely? = Bad Company?

    ‘If you are lonely when you are alone, you are in bad company’ by Jean-Paul Sartre. I’m holding on to this quote. There were times in my journey that I feel so lonely and those led me to a relapse. Usually I feel a certain kind of loneliness when I immediately wake up in the morning (like today...
  86. Мобильный

    Nothing changes

    I need to rant. Ever since internet appeared in my life, when I was in the 7th grade, and fapping became my mundane activity my life became a solitary confinement. Slowly but surely, day by day I had been losing any reason to be social, to study, to have any plans for the future until the only...
  87. R

    18yo virgin wants to shut down his libido permanently, how ?

    Hello great community, I am 18 years old boy, had been in some relationships but still virgin, and I would probably never have sex due to where i live ( no open-minded girls to meet or hard to find ) and even at college i feel loneliness and i have no girl to even talk to, i tried to do some...
  88. Bohdanbigos

    maybe we should more walk alone

    20 minutes ago I returned home after 1 hour pacing alone in a small forest. I saw many people chilling in companies. But I walk alone especially now, when everybody is on quarantine, I think it's necessary. For 1.5 months of lock down it starts to be pleasurable. Maybe because I have not much...
  89. H

    Quarantine and nofap

    Hi everyone... So it's my 130 days of my journey in nofap and I feel great (btw it's my second journey),I can feel things that I never felt when I used to fap ,My mind is 100% better ,my self confidence is really great ,I used to feel bad about myself when I'm disappointed or losing an argument...
  90. IK070

    Far bad than loneliness

    Guys, I'm on Day 24, and I guess many people did not experience a flatline! I'm very disturbed emotionally, I just hate everyone, everything. I can't explain my situation in words. I still stay strong and wanna motivate you guys that, still having zero urges towards porn and masturbation but the...
  91. L

    Feels like it gets more difficult every day atm

    So this morning is day 11 and I'm finding it super hard to ignore the urges, I'm succeeding so far but I was hoping things would start to get easier at this point. I think I've had a problem for maybe 10/15 years that's probably escalated in the past 7/5 years and now that I'm recently single...
  92. Мобильный

    The thing I discovered...

    Is that it is not ME who attracted to girls and women, it is not ME who wants them in my life, it is not MY decision to suffer because I am alone. It is something both external and deeply internal. The most important thing I realized after I failed at nofap again is that I didn't chose to be...
  93. Liam_here

    Tired of starting over again and again

    In seriously fed up these go so slowly all my motivations every thing I did everyone I forced myself to not masturbate for last 15 days gone to vain I've literally tried everything can't go past 2 weeks I don't have a girlfriend infact I dnt have anyone to talk to no one to share anything that...
  94. powerd992

    Coming back to NoFap / Loneliness

    Hello everybody, It's been a long time since I posted anything on the site. Unfortunately, having no social media accounts means being almost completely alone, which leads to having no relationships (loving or sexual) with the opposite sex. I found that the loneliness has tought me such...
  95. stevejohnson

    No Friends Why?

    I haven't any friends because of Loneliness. I have a few but they won't call me or text me why they act like that?. I really hate girls because they are very over acts such as make scene, maybe. But inner guy want a partner what would I do?. Any girls?? Are in NoFap please Contact me if wanna...
  96. misterkanister

    deeply wired videogame addiction (and avoidance in general)

    Hi! I love to do pixel art, music and animations and would like to do this professionally. Last year I accomplished some minor success on Instagram and I feel like I am on a good way. I also play drums and reached a good level where I can make money with it. Not enough to make a living but a...
  97. M

    27 and Aspergers Given up on Women

    I’m a 27 year-old male diagnosed with Aspergers’ since I was 3, grew up an only child, am great at studies, even did a BA Degree in Digital Media Production but really struggle with socialising especially women. This hasn’t been helped by the fact I was pretty much addicted to masturbation...
  98. T

    Thinking of hiring an escort...

    So some background on my situation: I'm 26 and I basically have crippling social anxiety. I feel into the incel scene and few times and because of my lack of any actual female companionship, I do have a porn addiction. I do have a few friends, but they don't really share the same interests as...
  99. V

    I wanna die

    I feel like dying half of my life has gone in pmo and i cant do anything about it everything is gone my life is done its all finished nothing left for me to live suicidal thoughts are my only companion no one wanna talk with me see me everyone hates me no reason left for me to live maybe i am...
  100. M

    Stop thinking about girls.

    Hi everyone, im new here, I'm a 21 years old guy, i have been trying to quit my addiction for a year but i always failed. I manged to go for 2 months without pprn but in the end i always relapsed, right now i'm in a two weeks streak. My main problem is always been my way of think about girls...
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