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Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by warpgate, May 21, 2021.

  1. warpgate

    warpgate Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys, I'm a 20M student looking to form an accountability group for ideally people in their late teens and early twenties.

    I've been off porn for almost a year now and I'd love to help others reach the same point I'm at. I struggled to do it for around a year and a half, and then suddenly I had a breakthrough and it's been so easy ever since. I just have no desire to watch porn, and I think that with the right approach it's easier to progress much faster. I followed a method primarily shame and willpower focused and it really broke me. Once I shifted my mindset to be one of changing my values I did much better. I think the later methodology can be used effectively in other places and I'd live to help others use it to be more effective.

    Personally, my main goal is to stop masturbating and live more in the present; I want to pursue my goals in earnest (i.e. use my energy that way) and improve myself. I usually masturbate around once per week on average, but when I do I don't have the willpower to stop myself and that is rather disappointing to be honest. Usually, I just succumb to some fantasy in my mind. With the pandemic I think my abilities have decayed slightly, and I'd like to get back on track.

    Anyways, please PM me if you are interested. I think we can run the group primarily by writing daily logs being mindful of our mental state and reiterating our goals to keep us driven. Eventually this should be habituated to cognitively automate this process. I'm down to have VC convos if people want potentially as well, but I understand many people will want to be as anonymous as possible.
     

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