Addicted to edging, reading stories, chat apps, roleplaying online

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  1. I am addicted edging, reading gay erotica, to chat apps, roleplaying with men online. I have had SSA and been addicted to M since first spying on a friend's Dad on sleepovers. Every time men ask me to tell them about it I end up M and edging with them for hours online. Its like it takes me right back. Anyone have similar addiction? Any suggestions? Could use an AP too.
     
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  2. bfdet

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    Short version: DO NOT EDGE ! EVER !

    Edging is really bad. Edging trains your body and mind to expect and to need prolonged, often very intense, stimulation in order to reach O. That level of mental and physical stimulation doesn't happen with PIV relations. Guess what: when you attempt PIV, your body and mind don't receive the kind of stimulation it needs to O, instead your body responds with PIED and DE. Not good.

    Edging does NOTHING good, so stop. Easier said than done, but it is certainly NOT impossible and very much worth every bit of effort required to stop this damaging activity.

    For more information about edging, have a look at:

    https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/reb...masturbate-edge-or-watch-porn-without-orgasm/

    DO NOT EDGE. EVER !

    And get rid of the P and Psubs ! (check the Glossary at the top of this page if you need definitions of terms and abbreviations that may be unfamiliar to you).

    One day at a time is how we all succeed.




    Short version: DO NOT EDGE ! EVER !

    Edging is really bad. Edging trains your body and mind to expect and to need prolonged, often very intense, stimulation in order to reach O. That level of mental and physical stimulation doesn't happen with PIV relations. Guess what: when you attempt PIV, your body and mind don't receive the kind of stimulation it needs to O, instead your body responds with PIED and DE. Not good.

    Edging does NOTHING good, so stop. Easier said than done, but it is certainly NOT impossible and very much worth every bit of effort required to stop this damaging activity.

    For more information about edging, have a look at:

    https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/reb...masturbate-edge-or-watch-porn-without-orgasm/

    DO NOT EDGE. EVER !
     
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  3. What if someone edges you? Same thing apply?
     
  4. bfdet

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    Likely the same things happen. With edging, your body and your brain learn to want and need prolonged, intense, stimulation to O. Long edging sessions - solo or partnered - are best avoided. That is a personal opinion - I'm not a medical professional -

    One day at a time is how we all succeed.
     
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  5. Knight55

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    I share the problem
     
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  6. Good to know im not alone in this
     
  7. Knight55

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    Nope. I’m right there with ya
     
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  8. bfdet

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    Hi @Knight55 and @Jobuddyb

    Hope you are both progressing your journeys of healing - and avoiding edging of course !

    One day at a time is how we all succeed
     
  9. Knight55

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    Thanx. Trying to
     
  10. Edfed half of yesterday tbh
     
  11. Knight55

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    Been there done that
     
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    @Jobuddyb and @Knight55 ...

    You KNOW better than to edge and you know (if you've read the information in earlier posts) that edging causes a LOT of damage, both physically and emotionally.

    So, why are you edging ?

    There are certainly other healthy, constructive, and productive ways to spend your time than wasting "half of yesterday" edging ! Find something better to do. Stop kidding yourself that you can edge and heal. You can't. Nobody can. So stop trying to heal and edge, because the two are just not compatible.

    Decide which you want. A healthy life with great emotional and physical rewards or a life spent looking at pixels and wrecking your physical and emotional health and wasting time.

    One day at a time is how we all succeed.
     
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  14. "..for your grave mistake, you can't save yourself"
     
  15. PM here in the same situation.
     
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    I’ve done that in recent years and kept it secret in both of my marriages
     

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