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Advice Needed

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Yohankhan, Jan 23, 2019.

  1. Jan 23, 2019 #1
    Yohankhan

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    Hi guys,

    So I just relapsed. A key trigger of mine is being in the house before the evening. Today however I am ill. I was a bit ill yesterday and left the house which made things worse. Hence why today I decided to stay in. I honestly felt absolutely powerless. I may have an interview tomorrow so I need laptop to prepare which leads to PMO. I really just didn't know what to do. I could have just Md which would genuinely have improved things but I wanted to try and last. On top of that, I'm a Muslim which means whenever we M we need to take a shower which for an ill person is far from ideal. I didn't know what to do. Does anyone have any suggestions in case this happens next time?
     
    Yohankhan, Jan 23, 2019
    Yohankhan, Jan 23, 2019
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  2. Jan 23, 2019 #2
    The Mighty Grim Reaper

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    Hi lad,

    Ask your self this, if -God forbid- you are still ill tomorrow, will you still go for your interview or will you call in sick. What do you approach with a high degree of importance? Your short term ill-health over long term resolutions? In my opinion: Make that sacrifice bro and take a shower. If indeed symptoms persist, then seek the advice of a medical practitioner.

    Likewise, I just relapsed -thirty minutes ago- and I'm ill -although I work from home which is a major trigger but to which I have little to no control over. So I can relate. I took a shower and rebooted my PMO tracker.
     
    The Mighty Grim Reaper, Jan 23, 2019
    The Mighty Grim Reaper, Jan 23, 2019
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  3. Jan 23, 2019 #3
    ZenAF

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    Well you have to able to be at home alone with your laptop without relapsing. Otherwise you cripple your freedom.
    Just pray the next time. I don't think we have the exact same conception of God, but for me he wants me to take responsibility for my life. That means if I say "I quit" it means I quit. There's no excuse like "it was too tempting". That just means we weren't serious enough in our decision. Decide and God will help.
     
    ZenAF, Jan 23, 2019
    ZenAF, Jan 23, 2019
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