I am dating this girl a long time back. We have not yet involved into sex , but have had other sort of physical fun . Suddenly , as I bring up to her my fantasies , She tells me to settle up first. I don't why I felt so but that is what I did , I felt as if she doesn't love me. I felt as if she is with me because of my background or if she sees a secured future with me. I don't know if i am right or not but that is what I felt. She was the girl whom I was after and tried on for 1.5 year but she never showed any interest till then. Then I got into a college( good one ) , and we started getting closer. Finally we started dating but the thing is I am not able to get rid of this thought. Where am I wrong? What should I do ?