Not sure if this is in the right forum so please move if necessary. I have met someone who is willing to help me boost my confidence in the bedroom. I’m 35 and due to performance anxiety I am a virgin. Anyway, she is really nice and understanding and we met last night. I did a lot of stuff with her to make sure she was satisfied but we didn’t have full sex as I wasn’t hard enough. However when she was playing with my penis both by hand and mouth I saw that it was almost 75% erect which was an improvement for me. My question is though, can my anxiety numb my senses. My penis felt completely floppy and even though I felt her tongue on it, in my head i wasn’t getting any sort of sensation and I only knew I was sort of semi erect when I looked down. Can anxiety do this? Would explain why I find it so hard to get aroused. I can get erections on my own easily
