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Darren hutto · Aug 10, 2020

I’m back on the nofap journey the key to beating a addiction is to not give up and I’m not giving up beating my addiction to this problem I have I’m 30years old from Louisiana like I have urges and it’s so hard for me to control sometimes urges and fantasies about women and pornstars it’s so difficult but last night I cried out to god to help me because I can’t find nothing without him I know my problem with porn is not going away now I know that nd I know the reason and root of my problem is to feel loved and I use porn to feel you void I feel inside the pain I feel I know I got problems with porn because when I’m depressed sad stressed out I use it to cope with the way I feel I know people are into all kind of porn but mine has always been lesbians porn and I been battling this problem for so long over 10+ years and counting but I’m not giving up I wish it was a easy way that be free of this addiction I have of women but it so hard to quit !

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I understand what it's like to use porn to cope with that void. I used to do the same. Let me tell you, simply trying to quit won't work, you also need to address the root issue, the compulsive obssession with relationships, sex, love, etc. My advice would be to stop dating, stop flirting, find new hobbies, have personal goals that aren't "get a girlfriend" or "build a family"... You need to build an identity for yourself, alone. Only when I became comfortable with not having someone else did I begin to get rid of this addiction.

Darren hutto · Aug 10, 2020

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I understand what it's like to use porn to cope with that void. I used to do the same. Let me tell you, simply trying to quit won't work, you also need to address the root issue, the compulsive obssession with relationships, sex, love, etc. My advice would be to stop dating, stop flirting, find new hobbies, have personal goals that aren't "get a girlfriend" or "build a family"... You need to build an identity for yourself, alone. Only when I became comfortable with not having someone else did I begin to get rid of this addiction.
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Thanks man everything you said is so true it’s like I want love but all in the wrong places man I don’t know why it’s so difficult for me and my problem too is my dad he don’t really treat me like a son I know I’m 30 but I still want that love for us to have a relationship but he don’t have time for me and it really hurts me I really try to be in his life but he don’t want to be in mine and my mom been divorced two times but dad and stepdad left both cheated on my mom and I’ve been through a lot of pain I loved my stepdad tooo and I feel that pain is not going away and my problem has always been porn it’s like it won’t go away it’s like I got a major problem with trying to quit porn and with this pandemic going on it makes everything more harder I just got over the virus I had it I was stuck in my house for a month thank god im back working now

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Thanks man everything you said is so true it’s like I want love but all in the wrong places man I don’t know why it’s so difficult for me and my problem too is my dad he don’t really treat me like a son I know I’m 30 but I still want that love for us to have a relationship but he don’t have time for me and it really hurts me I really try to be in his life but he don’t want to be in mine and my mom been divorced two times but dad and stepdad left both cheated on my mom and I’ve been through a lot of pain I loved my stepdad tooo and I feel that pain is not going away and my problem has always been porn it’s like it won’t go away it’s like I got a major problem with trying to quit porn and with this pandemic going on it makes everything more harder I just got over the virus I had it I was stuck in my house for a month thank god im back working now
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I'm so sorry, that sounds really rough. I hope you can find peace and overcome the sadness and this addiction. I know that you have the strength to do it!

Darren hutto · Aug 10, 2020

Thanks man it’s really tough too not only batting addiction but depression anxiety stress urges fantasies of women morning wood wet dreams all these problems man it’s really tough and I have been praying and read my Bible trying to do something anything to get my mind right and get over porn I know I’m not perfect but it’s difficult a lot of the time

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