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Becoming an adult while doing nofap

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by brickhead16, May 19, 2015.

  1. brickhead16

    brickhead16 Fapstronaut

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    I am so joyful of what I've accomplished. The streak started, not out of a big idea of "Yeah im gonna start on this day and no PMO forever!" It started after any other relapse. I had failed a streak in which would have been 90 days ending on my birthday. Discouraged, but i didnt give up, i began setting small goals until i stopped monitoring my progress altogether.

    Ive gone through nocturnal emmissions, discovered kegel exercises which have helped me have more control of my bladder, which seems to be a bit exciteable for lack of better words. Ive done things for my posture, and all these other things that i stated in my last post.

    im really happy to say that my mind is clear of PMO, and while i still get healthy urges now and again, i say "not a chance", and i take control. i have learned to fight the occassional trigger by calming my anxiety, which makes these triggers much worse than they seem, and most importantly, I have fallen in love with someone.
    I can appreciate her for her personality and her beauty to me is like unthinkable. I feel in love with her on my worst days, and on my best. Even when I was going through a flatline.

    I'm not gonna say nofap changed my life, Im not gonna say that ive just begun or that it's over. I am going to say that I have finally achieved the most I ever have in myself out of my young life and that ANYBODY, ANY ONE of you CAN, I repeat CAN, do it too. I promise, if i can do it, you can. No it is not easy, no the changes are not always apparent or positive, but it is worth giving everything you got.

    Anybody struggling message me and I'll tell you everything I've done. I wanna thank God and this community, cause i might not be the same person if neither existed. Thanks for reading
     
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