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Bedtime Fantasizing

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by djmotion, Apr 9, 2017.

  1. Apr 9, 2017 #1
    djmotion

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    Hey guys & girls, just wondering if anyone could give me some tips on fantasizing in bed. Been led in bed trying to sleep for 2 hours because of horniness and fantasizing (about a girl I know, not porn so suppose that is better but still not ideal), just got up to write this post then gonna have a fag and try again. cheers.
     
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  2. Apr 10, 2017 #2
    J247

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    Lol. Oh the wordage. Love how Brits call it one thing and it means something different on the other side of the pond. Try listening to white noise. I like nature sounds. They help me wind down a bit while I'm just laying here.
     
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  3. Apr 10, 2017 #3
    MANJ33T

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    leave out all the rest
     
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  4. Apr 10, 2017 #4
    djmotion

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    Which bit? fag & cheers? lol and I do like nature sounds too, used to have an app called brain buddy which gave you relaxing noises as well as loads of other help for quitting but I'm on android now and can't download it cause it's only on iPhone :(
     
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  5. Apr 10, 2017 #5
    Enemjay

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    Lol, there's an iPhone exlusive app I wanted to try that monitors how much each member of a conversation talks and let's you know if your dominating it. Don't you just looooooove that ducking platform exclusivity...

    Anyway, I'm in the same position as you. I saw this tall athletic beauty at lap swim the other day and she pops into my mind when I lay in bed. I was squeezing my junk while fantasying about her but know this isn't much better than regular old M despite not rubbing, cause it's enabling those same Neuro pathways that P and M used to run on. I've got to cut that out.

    Wasn't so hard before, but now after two weeks into my reboot and with my libido regenerated, it's harder to keep that old dog down. "Down boy! Down!"
     
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  6. Apr 10, 2017 #6
    djmotion

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    same :rolleyes: I'm only coming up for 2 days at half 6 and already fantasizing so it's only gonna get worse lol I think fantasizing is probably the hardest thing to control though cause with porn you just avoid which is hard yeah but it's harder to avoid your thoughts especially when you don't fap in so long and you got hot chicks surrounding you all the time lol you're guaranteed to fantasize at some point.
     
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  7. Apr 10, 2017 #7
    Enemjay

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    Exactly.

    They're gonna pop into your head. Its gonna happen. Just can't let it turn into a 30 min long fantasy session...
     
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  8. Apr 10, 2017 #8
    Enemjay

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    I'm thinking this has to be worse than quitting heroin...
     
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  9. Apr 10, 2017 #9
    djmotion

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    I relapsed twice within 2 hours and now I feel like shit :( it's the hardest thing I've ever tried giving up to be honest but if we can do it then we will be far better and stronger men for it
     
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