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Caged Tiger

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by StayClean&Proactive, Jul 3, 2019.

  1. Jul 3, 2019 #1
    StayClean&Proactive

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    I hate feeling like a caged tiger whenver I see an attractive woman in provocative clothing. It's extremely frustrating. They walk around with their breasts popping out. And all us men have to do is stand there and be tortured. Women have the privilege of taking advantage of thier looks, us men having nothing. Women don't have a sex drive based on looks, they have a sex drive based on emotion. It's extremely frustrating how difficult it is to fight myself from getting aroused whenver I see exposed cleavage. (I'm not much of an ass man). Everytime I see a girl wearing exposing outfits, my heart drops, and my legs start to shake. I Especailly get excited when I've gone a long time without seeing cleavage. I understand that I shouldn't put women on the pedestal. But this is the most frustrating part about being a man. We can't control women by our looks, since their sex drive is based on emotion and not physical traits. I feel like a puppet on strings whenever I see exposed breasts. Cause I know I can't do anything except stare.And then hold in my sex drive. I feel like a sick pervert
     
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  2. Jul 3, 2019 #2
    properWood

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    When did you stop PMO?
     
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  3. Jul 3, 2019 #3
    elevate

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    Who told you this?
     
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  4. Jul 3, 2019 #4
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    First off, take women and how they dress totally out of this. This line of argument is just trying to pin the blame on women and then say "I can't help it!". Bullocks! As a respected member of the forum would say.

    This issue is all about us as men and learning self-control.

    Learning how to control our urges to look and lust will make all of us better men. It's not easy but it is worth it.

    There's plenty of information out there about training oneself to stop leering, gawking, ogling, and basically acting like a perv. Don't believe the lies that there's nothing that can be done. We can choose to control our eyes and we can choose to control the direction our mind goes after seeing an attractive woman.

    Learning self control also goes with women, but in their case it will be something different than looking and lusting.

    Men need to learn how to control themselves, women need to learn how to control themselves. It can be done. Don't make excuses, it's only going to hold you back.

    As a young man you have an opportunity to have a great life free from lust, porn, and sex addiction. As a 52 year old man that's wasted decades pleasuring himself, I tell you with all sincerity, do what ever you can to learn and practice self-control so you don't end up wasting decades of your life like me and so many others. Just the other day I was listening to a man older than me, near tears, talking about all the time he wasted because he didn't control himself. And now he's suffering consequences from that life. Don't be like me or him.

    Glad you're here at this website. Hope you'll stick around and learn as much as you can and apply what you learn.
     
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  5. Jul 4, 2019 #5
    Infrasapiens

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    I got an idea: Accept it, and if you can't, then look to somewhere else. That's what I did.
     
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  6. Jul 10, 2019 #6
    StayClean&Proactive

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    I wish I can fight myself to become asexual
     
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  7. Jul 10, 2019 #7
    Infrasapiens

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    You remind me of VirginWarrior, that is not good. If you learn to love yourself, it will be easier for you to find a girl.
     
    Infrasapiens, Jul 10, 2019
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