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Can’t Get/keep it up

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Ace-36, May 14, 2022.

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  1. May 14, 2022 #1
    Ace-36

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    So I’ve been having a problem for a while now and I have to get it off my chest to someone other than my girlfriend (which is who I’m having the problem with). Like the title says, whenever I’m with my girlfriend and we’re trying to get things going I either can’t get it up like at all which goes without saying is embarrassing, or if I do manage to get it up it’s either a flimsy one or goes down away shortly after starting. The crazy, but not so shocking thing is that when I’m watching or thinking of P, I have no problem getting an erection. Things have gotten so bad that I literally try to avoid sex or try to find some way out of it which I can say makes me feel worthless as a man. I don’t know what else could be the reason other than P but it’s a scary thought that I cannot even manage to have some sort of control of my erections, and the even scarier thing is what if I can’t shake this or it last way longer than I can think of. I just need some advice or even someone telling me that I’m not the only one going through this. Thanks in advance!!
     
    Ace-36, May 14, 2022
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  2. May 15, 2022 #2
    from2003

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    Bro , everything will be okay , but first you need to quit watching porn and masturbation , your body will heal even at your worst you just need to provide some time for healing process , and you have PIED(PORN INDUCED ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION ) where the person only get erection while watching porn and in real partner not at all , my friend had similar disorder and he was very scared cause his wife never satisfied , he was literally thinking about to do suicide cause of the depressing order , but after concerning with sexual disorder treatment doctor he find out the cure and it was no watch porn and no lapse and take proper and healthy diet , stress free avoid watching unrealistic stuff like vedio or model , and the time period was almost 2 and half year than he satisfied the partner and after 9 month they both got beautiful girl , and they are living there life at fullest.
    And believe me you tooo just control your urges , and watching porn ,

    You can stay with your wife and tell her about your issue and cure as well , I believe that she will understand definitely . and wait for the triumph destination .

    You can do cuddle and sleep together with her , talk with her , make laugh with her .

    Sex isn't everything.

    I know it is hard but you can
     
    from2003, May 15, 2022
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  3. May 18, 2022 #3
    charming pool77

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    I go through something similar, I have morning wood, I can have an erection, but not standing nor can I maintain it, nor with porn, I am very scared, I know you would like a success story, I would also like it, but no one commented on my post:(
     
    charming pool77, May 18, 2022
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  4. Jun 7, 2022 #4
    Mortal313

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    I'm facing similar problem, my penis get hard, I get mild MW everyday Like others...
    Now I don't get hard with or without p...
    My p..s release precum when only watching porn
    If I mastrbt I don't get precum I get it only with P
    Any solution plz
    Literally I get jealous whenever I listen or see better hard erection
     
    Mortal313, Jun 7, 2022
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  5. Jun 7, 2022 #5
    Coub

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    Don't worry guys, you're not alone. I don't get erection even to P nowadays. This sucks so much but nothing to do. There's only one thing that can help: time.

    I would also suggest a visit to the sexologist for some temporary solutions, if you know what I mean, if you're not afraid that it might worsen your case.
     
    Coub, Jun 7, 2022
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