Can you love now ? [ Love /Lust ]

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Mr.Tony, Dec 11, 2020.

  1. Mr.Tony

    Mr.Tony Fapstronaut

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    I'm 61 days NoFap, i'm starting to understand how love is supposed to feel, how a relationship based on love of the partner is all about!

    Notice the word "Love", Not the Teenage or Twilight kind of love... I'm talking about loving and caring about someone. And being ready to live the rest of your life togather as friends and partners. Despite not being so beautiful, but i care more about the inner beauty. Being kind and all kinds good things that makes a relationship beautiful.

    Prior to NOFAP, all i remember is Lust, How hot she is and what type of body p*rt are perfect for using...

    It's true, you will see women as sex object. If you consume too much P#&!, It's too dangerous.

    This might most likely destroy people's relationship...

    I wounder if you are able to Love now ?
    Your level of Dopamine needs to be so low so that you can enjoy small things.

    I wish you great life if you have a partner and if you don't, Good luck find someone who understand you and love for who you are till the end of your life.
     
  2. Di.Do.555

    Di.Do.555 Fapstronaut

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    Ask for the perfect lover and she will definitely show up when you are ready.
    Don't force it.
    Keep working on yourself.
    It us true, you still appreciate physical beauty but it will never be the main thing to look for.
     
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  3. Mr.Tony

    Mr.Tony Fapstronaut

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    True.
     
  4. theoptimist

    theoptimist Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the kind wishes
     
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  5. pcmaster

    pcmaster Fapstronaut

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    Well, I can love better for sure in terms of caring. But I don't need sex anymore so looking more for friendship, same values and beliefs, rather than good looks or promising romantic love.
     
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