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Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by supaflyB, Nov 15, 2018.

  1. supaflyB

    supaflyB Fapstronaut

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    I don't know why, but on my free time, I find myself in the random chat websites (mainly omegle) sifting through too many dicks to try and find a girl to show my junk to. I can sit there for hours just clicking next, waiting for that girl to be impressed by the size of my member. I sometimes stop going to these sites because I get bored and I usually stay away form them for months, but I always get dragged back in somehow. I believe that this addiction to chat sites is hurting me in a way i don't realize and i keep going back to it because i don't find anything in real life to help me with my self confidence, like strangers complimenting me does.( i do go to the gym)
    Ive always had trouble with women and im sure that being on these chat sites cant help me to finding a girlfriend. i even download tinder and have had no luck. ( im 28 and have had sex once and it was with an escort)
     
  2. ultrafabber

    ultrafabber Fapstronaut

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    Yes, this is hurting you. It's a form of exhibitionism, which is a paraphilia.

    You identified the need behind it, admiration and boost in self esteem, but you probably understand the way you're doing it now is not helping you.

    Talk to a psychologist about it, it will help
     
  3. Tryingto

    Tryingto Fapstronaut

    Yes, any addiction will bring a whole host of sufferings to the person who is addicted. Speaking from personal experience chat sites can definitely fall in this category. And speaking to what I've read above, you do seem to be describing an active addiction.

    If admiration and a stronger sense of self-esteem are what you're looking for, chat sites are likely not the way to go. In the same vein, addiction is definitely not the way to go.
     
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  4. titkata92

    titkata92 Fapstronaut

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    Each of us has come across such sites like Omegle, Chatrandom, Azar and others, the question is the time to give up on them. There you will never find the right girl, because they are also angry and depressed. If we talk about moral values, you'll never find them. It is time to quit such sites. If you like to meet the internet try Tinder, perhaps for now it's the best online meeting platform.
     

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