Checklist for pursuing relationships with women

Is great that you are planning to work on yourself and maybe get to the best version you can be but... the reason why you are doing it is wrong... always do everything you do for you, not for someone else.
Have goals and ambitions but with your work or passions, like sports or activities you like to do but not to get woman.
Change everything you like in your life to be happier not to pursue woman, if you do you are doing everything wrong.
The idea is to enter a relationship to share your happiness, your complitness. If your ultimate goal is a relationship you life is only going to be complete and you are only going to be happy if you are in a relationship. So, everytime you end a relationship you are going to be unhappy and imcomplete again.. and will desperetely look for another relationship to be complete and happy again.

Be happy alone, and then share that with another person. But know for sure that if that relationship don't work out you have an amazing life alone and eventually you are going to know another woman to share it with.

 

Bro, do not forget, don’t ever make a woman the focus in your life, but a welcome addition if she’s worth it.

 

For the vast majority of women she is not yours, just your turn.

 

I wouldn't necessarily agree with that. I understand the underlying philosophy, but it doesn't apply to all of the girls.
I would say that most of the girls I find myself interested in - attractive, smart, with something going on in their lives - are looking for one partner who will become their husband. They are not sleeping around or changing boyfriends very often. They either stay single or are in a long term relationship. But I'm 25 so the priorities for women definitely shift at that time.

Of course, if we're talking about loose girls from Tinder then yes: it's just your turn, but that should be pretty obvious.