Confusion: Better reboot with partner with sexual stimulation or not?

I have no idea what your question is but if you are asking is it better to have a sexual partner or not? Then I would definitely say yes and no. The reason for being yes is if you were a hardcore porn addict, meaning if you got yourself into extremely hardcore porn, then this could be a huge benefit to flipping your brain 180 degrees to something that you were so used to (hardcore porn) to something more normal (sex). The reason for being no is when you have you sex, you could want more of it and when your sexual partner is not around, you turn to porn and you could fall back into your previous past. So honestly, it's up to you to figure out what's right, it's your own free-will.

 

I just really have no clue what you're trying to say, can you explain it a little bit better or paraphrase it.

 

i am for sex, but ONLY if noFap is totally out for long time, not 90 days, not 200, i mean never more PM...

 

Why not you try it with both ways?
Basically the point of NoFap is to make your porn addiction go away/get it under control/etc. Now I don't know how badly you are addicted to porn or whether you are addicted to orgasm and that's why you watch porn. So what you do is for 15 days try method 1. Feel the whole process and analyze whether (and how much) you want to or actually look at porn. Then go for method 2 for the next 15 days i.e. no sexual stimulation at all and repeat the above process.
This may not look the answer you expect but it'll help you understand what's the key factor to overcome for your recovery. If even during method 1, you want to go for porn then start PMO hard mode, because your brain needs time for rewiring. However if during method 1 porn is mostly out of your mind (and I mean not even peeking a little bit) but due to sexual stimulation you tend to fap a lot, then congratulations as porn isn't your main issue. So abstinence from any sexual stimulation will be the key. I know I just mentioned the same the result for both the cases but the key part is identifying where you are and how affected your mind is with porn and taking it from there. This will help you get a clearer idea.
Now let's come to the next 15 days, i.e no stimulation. Here I want to you to analyse how many times porn or erotic thoughts come into your mind without the sexual stimulation. You don't want your dick to be always on alert. This will let you understand how much you spent your time thinking about this stuff. Remember I am not saying that sexual thoughts are bad, I just want you to get an idea of which kind of sexual thoughts you are getting (porn flashbacks or real thing). If its porn the PMO hard mode is the best bet, however if its real then again congratulations because you have already won half of the battle, now the only thing you have to (if you want to) do is to not let it take your entire time. For that too at some level you require PMO maybe less days but I think you'll benefit from it.
That's what i could say from whatever i have understood written above. Anyway do keep this thread updated as what you asked is a question on a lot of people's minds when starting this.