Cultivating energy, pacifying body and mind : goal 100 days

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Vedas_fr, May 5, 2018.

  1. Vedas_fr

    Vedas_fr Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone,
    I am willing to try to reach 100 days without mo.
    A few words about me : i am not a pmo addict, but i still indulge in sexual behaviour there and there. I don't have a strong opinion regarding normal sexuality, but i do believe that sexuality is made for reproduction and that when one over indulges in sexuality for pleasure problem quickly start to appear.

    I started giving up porn and masturbation 8 years ago, when i was 20 yrs old, mainly because i noticed heavy after effects of orgasm on the energy and overall health. At this time of my life,i would do it 2 or 3 times per week, and once i did it two times in day and i experienced extreme fatigue and drainage, which is the point where i started changing my behaviour.
    I would however keep alterning between no pmo streak of a few weeks, and then indulgence, and sometimes even meet a real woman ;).
    However the negative effects never went away so the more time passed, the more abstinent i became.
    At this stage of my life it is very easy for me to do a month streak. But usually after being abstinent for a while i start to change my attitude toward sex... indulge... and then become tired and depressed and start a new cycle.
    I want to make a 100 days experiment, with the goal of cultivating and retaining my energy to a higher level of balance. My longest streak was something around 50 days.
    I will give up masturbation forever. I know for some it might seem crazy but this is actually totally doable.
    (in a sense i have already almost did, even if i come back to it with a low frequency).
    I will meditate and do a bit of sport.
    I am single at the moment and i don't know how i will handle women from now because sex is such a drain on my energy that i am not very much willing to indulge in it frequently. However, i might want to start a familly later in life so i might have to figure that out later.

    You are welcome to join me in my efforts.
     
  2. j_pwc_bat

    j_pwc_bat Fapstronaut

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    Good goal you have there. You are able to be successful.
     
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  3. Gurucito Rimpoche

    Gurucito Rimpoche Fapstronaut

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    Hello bro, i join you. I came from a long streak too and there are lot of benefits, so it opted to keep this way of living :)
    PS. Lets make an acountability group!!
     
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  4. Vedas_fr

    Vedas_fr Fapstronaut

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    Hey it's amazing!
    I don't know how to make an accountability group, i propose you go ahead and make one.
    On a side not i intent to try a 48 h hours water fast, fasting seems to have a great effect on the body and mind.
    Also are you like me, in the sense that you can't stand the after effects of too frequent orgasms? ( more than twice a month?)
     
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  5. Gurucito Rimpoche

    Gurucito Rimpoche Fapstronaut

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    All right, I'll do one. Lets go 100 days starting from 0, is that okay?
    Im not that into water fast at the moment, but someday ill do it.
    In a sense, yeah, because it makes me less productive and i have to be fine at school, work and gym, also i wanna go for a chick!!
     
  6. Vedas_fr

    Vedas_fr Fapstronaut

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    Sure why not. But you are already 17 days and me 21 so we can just keep on our streaks.