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Day 135 from no PRON, still zero libido/sexual feelings..bit worried.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by JC8833, Dec 30, 2023.

  1. JC8833

    JC8833 Fapstronaut

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    Getting a bit worried still zero libido and been flatlining since pretty early on like week 2...is this not entirely too uncommon? 4 months seems like a long time to not get any benefits coming my way
     
  2. TheRaven8386

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    If your case was a very bad one like mine then no and I may be able to make you feel better. Near 20 year porn addiction and 27-28 Year Masturbation addiction. Over a year away from porn and I'm still not even close to healed. When I'm with my Fiance' I can get an erection hard enough for sex, but it usually doesn't last more than 5 minutes. My libido really only kicks in when I'm with her. So depending on how long you were hooked 4 months might be just the beginning for you.
     
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  3. Anonymous86

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    Have you noticed any psychological improvement such as less brain fog or more conscious clarity when thinking since starting abstinence? Sorry, I'm just curious. Don't mean to change focus here.
     
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    Yes, but it got a LOT worse before it got better
     
  5. JC8833

    JC8833 Fapstronaut

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    I do feel more motivation and mental clarity coming back first 2 months or so I was really just not motivated about anything so I do feel a positive change with mood so that is encouraging…I’m sure I’ll be a long rebooter which I’ve heard is pretty common if you started at young age which i did (12 y/o) and 29 now. Just want to be fixed now!! lol ugh.
     
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  6. TheRaven8386

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    I just turned 40
     
  7. OhWhenThe

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    Sexual dreams and morning wood will happen first, if you're having neither of those then don't expect libido to come back anytime soon.
     
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  8. JC8833

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    Very feint morning wood has retuned but no sexual dreams or wet dreams..and no horniness during the day super flat and dead feeling so I’m sure just still flatlining and gotta trust it will turn eventually…

    I also am very healthy (good sleep, exercise, diet) is all on point so I’m doing what I can to heal this dopamine system!
     
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