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Day #20.. Can't Believe it!!!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by MontStar48, Jan 15, 2014.

  1. Jan 15, 2014 #1
    MontStar48

    MontStar48 Fapstronaut

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    Wow, first word that comes to mind. I set out on this adventure without any real goal besides growing & become les reliant on porn. Day 20 came so fast, I'm still kinda shocked at how well I'm doing. Doesn't mean it has been easy, cause I have been tested to the brink of relapsing on more the one occasion.

    But continue to level up like the Super Hero I was born to be!!


    Porn fantasy, come & go.. But what I find difficult these days are fantasizing about past sexual encounters. The smell, touch & excitement of the moment have been replaying graphically through my mind. At times I get so lost in the moment that I actually feel like I'm in that reality..

    How do you guys deal with these moments!

    Thanks!!!
     
    MontStar48, Jan 15, 2014
    MontStar48, Jan 15, 2014
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  2. Jan 15, 2014 #2
    challenge

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    Good on ya!! Im in day 15, and have seen massive improvements in different areas.

    Dont quit!!
     
    challenge, Jan 15, 2014
    challenge, Jan 15, 2014
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  3. Jul 15, 2015 #3
    Jodokus

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    Congrats on 20 days!

    fantasizing about past sexual encounters - thats a wonderful thing. But also linked to melancoly.
    Unfortunately I have (yet) no clue how do deal with'em when abstinent.
    maybe just let them go through? enjoy them without masturbating? Write a poem about it?
    Or rather concentrate on your gf ;)


    Be strong and stay clean!
     
    Jodokus, Jul 15, 2015
    Jodokus, Jul 15, 2015
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  4. Jul 15, 2015 #4
    Knight Solaire

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    Fantasizing about anything (unless it is with your current SO with the intent to have sex) is detrimental and will only hold you back in your reboot. I suggest learning to keep your mind busy and to stop dwelling on them. They will only hold you down (and could be possibly triggering) in the long run.

    Great job making it to 20 days buddy. Hope I helped.
     
    Knight Solaire, Jul 15, 2015
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