Day #60’ish and flatlining’ish. Horny’ish. Help?

Hey everyone, just joined after lurking on and off over the last couple of years. I have tried nofap several times over the last couple of years. I believe I may be on my longest streak right now. In the past I have counted the days and found myself eagerly awaiting that magical 90 day mark and have always overthought it and ended up giving in. This time around, I just stopped fapping one day. I can’t remember exactly when, it’s around 60 days ago, but I’ve found that counting the days and shooting for a target has actually been counterproductive. This time around I’ve just committed to not fapping anymore.

Where I’m at:

My interest in women has definitely spiked, I’m craving a partner like crazy right now. I went on 4 dates with a girl over the course of the last month. On the third date we had a nice night in at my house, drank A LOT, got takeout and started a movie. She fell asleep, I carried her back to my bed and sex was off the table for both of us for all of the right reasons. We cuddled/spooned a lot and I was very aroused.

The next date was a week later. Things started to get VERY steamy, and the moment was right for sex, but I lost my arousal because of (maybe?) the questions running through my mind. I want a relationship and an exclusive partner. Maybe I should have done this much sooner, but I stopped and told her that I wanted to have some conversations before going further. Essentially, I told her that I was looking for a relationship and wanted sexual exclusivity before having sex with her (I don’t want std’s or the “ick” factor). She told me that she wasn’t looking for a relationship and was dating a few people, which definitely stung, but I’m getting over it. She went ghost mode on me.

Anyway, I’m moving on and chatting with some other girls on dating apps. My desire to find the right girl for me is at an all time high, craving physical and emotional connection with a girl is at an all time high, but I’m in total flatline. No random erections, 3/4 morning wood at best, but I have this insane urge to connect with and make love to someone. What the heck is going on??

I don’t feel any urges to PMO or anything like that. I guess I’m just curious if anyone has had a similar experience?

Thanks for reading, and any input is greatly appreciated.