YOU SUCK Yes, I understand your main reasoning behind it: "Having a girl in the group would be too triggering". Although, all the females on this site put up with you. We see all this potentially triggering talk of male relapse and graphic detail of your genitals. But we're strong enough to deal with it. See it, acknowledge it, move on. It's that simple... So that excuse is simply a weak cop-out. Your other reasonings, ie girls bring too much drama to the group or we couldn't talk freely or people would start sexting or whatever other feeble attempt at justifying your blatant discriminatory actions Please just know that we're already a minority here. And we feel bad enough having this issue (because it's not commonly acknowledged or accepted for girls to struggle with pmo), it really does suck being excluded so many times here. Thank you.
YOU SUCK I agree, Why would talking to a female online be a trigger? I can see the most sexy picture of girl and not fall into it or even fantisize a few minutes after. Thats how we should be. Females bringing drama to a group? No answer. Couldnt talk freely? Thats retarded. Start sexting? ARENT WE ON NOFAP?? Where did you get this¿
What Groups are "for men only"? I'm not against a place for guy chat, but it really only needs to be a very small piece of the site.
She's talking about in the Accountability forums. You don't ever see mixed gendered accountability groups. And from my understanding there also aren't a lot of female AP groups so I can only imagine how hard it must be for a girl on this site to get some accountability partners. I agree with @Jae , us guys on here need to do a better job.
I was actually really surprised to see how many people on this site are girls. There needs to be more help and accountability for girls. There's a lot of content on here for guys, but not so much girls. Maybe I'm wrong on that, just on observation. It's really encouraging to me seeing girls on the site. It has helped me have a better appreciation for women as a whole (not that I didn't respect them beforehand). I feel very alone sometimes in my want to be clean and it's encouraging to me to see that there's a lot of women out there who feel the same way and feel as though there's something wrong about porn. There definitely needs to be more resources catered towards women.
You are being sexist by saying this. Acknowledge it and move on? This is so mean of you to say. Don't you know that statistics and science says that females are mentally emotionally stronger than males? We might look and act through but actually it's jelly inside! Please don't be so mean to jelly! Not fapping for so long is like being pregnant with all those hormones running wild. Do you have any idea how it is to be pregnant? Of course not! You are female after all! How could a female have any idea of... oh... never mind... Well, since you do you should be able to relate even more! And with time the thing you carry grows in size and weight. For you it's in the belly but for us between our legs. And it gets heavy, hurts the lover back real bad!
An idea! Somebody should make a support group where only gays and females are allowed. Than that should not be a problem for males to have a female there, huh? Yea, but then again, then there would be a bunch of gay males... yea, that probably wouldn't work.
Not unless you woke up with your nethers soaked in blood and the feeling of a million elephants having a party on your abdomen.
I've seen a ton of support for both sexes on this forum. I've also seen really ignorant responses to both sexes. It's the interwebs; you take the good with the bad. Regarding segregated groups, I didn't really realize that was a thing, for the most part, here. I know SAA has men only groups and groups for females. It's not a sexist thing. Some folks feal safer sharing their most intimate and often extremely embarrassing stories with members of the same sex. If this forum has a section for those that fell that way, considering the rest of the forum is very open, I don't consider that such a bad thing.
I once woke up feeling like that after a very intense party night, with big hangover. I don't remember what happened that night but I do not exclude the possibility that I might have menstruated a little bit from too much alcohol consumption. Or maybe I just got very hard kick in my genitals, I usually do get very horny and pushy when drunk. I just hope I didn't try to molest any of my male friends, that would be awkward.
