Did I have ED?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Quexx, Jun 20, 2018.

  1. Quexx

    Quexx Fapstronaut

    Whenever I would have sex with my now ex-girlfriend, I would have no problems getting it up. Keeping it up without physical touching/stroking of it was impossible.

    This led to for instance whenever we would take a break during sex and just kissing and caressing each others bodies, I would go limp, leading to her thinking she did something wrong or didn't want to have sex with her, or even didn't want HER.

    Was this some form of ED, possibly caused by PMO?
     
  2. JakeWoods

    JakeWoods Fapstronaut

    Yeah that is some kind of pied. If your penis goes down very quickly after you stop stimulating it... that’s not good.

    Obviously eventually it will go down if you leave it alone and don’t partake in sexual activity.

    A healthy Male should be fully erect and ready to go without even having to touch his penis. And it should stay up for a considerable amount of time even if you’re not stimulating it.
     
  3. Quexx

    Quexx Fapstronaut

    Thanks for confirming my suspicion.
    I always felt like something must be wrong. She was a gorgeous woman and just kissing her, while caressing her body during a break when having sex (i.e. no penetration happening at that specific time) SHOULD have kept me hard but it didn't.

    Will staying on PMO abstaining alleviate this problem? Or will I have to visit a doctor?

    Also, is there some other way of checking if I'm "cured" other than having actual sex?
    Not that I don't want to have sex, I just don't want to find out I'm still not able to keep it up if I actually do have sex with someone :)
     
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  4. Cool_Bro

    Cool_Bro Fapstronaut

    Hey Brother ! Cut away P from your life from right now , You will see after a few months or weeks(may be) that you have finally cured your PIED. For now, I don't think that you should visit a doctor.
    Generally , our penis got erection by sexual arousal may be in form of a women attraction by semi naked or fully naked women bodies but I don't recommend you to checking them out as It will lead to edging or may be a relapse.

    Don't worry, Just stay away from P and for now ,you need not to check whether you have cured PIED or not. Because development of your body's default mechanism again will take time and PIED will be cured automatically and you yourself will feel the change in you.
    I hope it helps
    Good luck Brother ! :)
     
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  5. Quexx

    Quexx Fapstronaut

    Thanks man!
    P is definitely a no-go for me right now. I'm not even urging or longing to watch P.

    I guess I'll just wait and see and hope for the best! I have noticed morning wood a few of the days now so that's a good sign I guess :)
    Thank you and good luck to you all too!
     
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