Disappointed!!!! "

Unworthy to be human?

 

I don't think its porn. You're "Friends" are bringing you down if they are talking to you like this. If I had friends like this I would be hanging out with them less and less. Porn might be playing a part but think about what you said... You are receiving the negative statements that your friends have given you on their remark. True friends won't be like this, they don't get you down every single time you talk. You have all of this confidence inside of you and they might be effecting it.


When I was a teen and young adult I had to realize who I wanted to hang out with or who was positive or negative influence in my life and I figured that out the hard way.


If you want you're more then welcome to send me message and talk about it. I've dealt with this same exact situation when I was younger and I know it sucks.

 

Hi. I don't know how old you are, but regardless of that, these friends of yours are doing you more bad than good. I don't know if you are able to, but try to distance yourself (at least from the these discussions, change subject or take it as a joke.)

No matter what stage in life you are, with or without partner, what it matters is your outlook in life. What do you want to do? What goals are you working towards? What things do you want to improve about yourself?

The saying "you can't love somebody before you love yourself" is cheesy, but speaks volumes. No girl will solve your problems if you, yourself, can't even see them. It might not be the best advice you were expecting, but you can't "ask her out and propose". Make your goal to make friends, to meet people, to find a purpose in life. The right person will come along.

And if you feel like porn affects you, then make that your first goal: quit. Quit for yourself, for your future, for your girlfriend-to-be.

 

I will have to agree fully with what @Mr. Monk and @user12345 have said. Toxic friends you have there my friend. Sometimes people you hang with are just a past time, nothing to gain from their "companionship" other than a reason to "kill" some time with. Sometimes to change directions means to leave some things behind and in your case start off with removing who you associate with. From there you will know what else to change. One step at a time.

 

Yeah if there your real friends they should try understand your situation instead of bringing u down that’s the problem with the world it’s laughs more on other ppl situation instead of helping and asking are you ok n etc , someday you’ll get that girl…

 

People who make fun of you cannot be friends, they are not your friends. Dump them immediately, they bring you down.

 

You can use this pain what you are feeling to use as decipline to make progress on Nofap and every time u feel like quitting remember the type of things your friends have said to you. Now that doesn’t mean that you should be angry and bitter about what they have said but if it truly bothers you, you should do something about it and prove them wrong. As deep down you have the potential to stop porn and better yourself.