I have experienced this myself and I have to say almost all of my married friends have this complaint. I think by nature women are socialized to put others first, and to be accommodating. But men seem slow to get to that point. It’s like they fail to consider how their decisions effect their partners, or they do and decide their own choice is still better. There’s a lot of I want, not we want. I even see this with friends that are Fathers. It’s still very me me me. It’s almost like a fight to be independent. Are all men like this, should I resign myself to this fact? Men how does a woman get you to put we first?