Does flatline end? This is torture. A young guy with no sex drive!!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Brad111222333, Feb 28, 2015.

  1. Brad111222333

    Brad111222333 New Fapstronaut

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    Hi, I have one question.

    I'm 19 and started using p and m at 16. I stopped for like 2 months after hearing about NoFap but I'm now in flatline.

    I'm willing to stick with it but I need hope this "flatline" will end. It sucks because girls are attracted to me but I feel nothing. It's like I'm asexual and I can't stand it.

    My question is how does "flatline" end? Do you just all of a sudden get your sex drive back out of the blue one day or what?

    I heard that your dick has to be "excercised". And you "use it or lose it" but I don't know. I don't even want to m or p but I just want my sex drive back so I can have REAL sex with REAL girls.

    Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thank you very much.
     
  2. fapadonna

    fapadonna Fapstronaut

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    Are you hitting the gym at all? Exercise in general will help the flatline.
    Are you doing hard mode? I suggest it for the first 90 days
     
  3. NFI_Freedom

    NFI_Freedom Fapstronaut

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    The flatline for me was a god send. Made the first few weeks bearable and allowed me to work my self out before I got into the real challenge.

    It's not gonna last forever. Just let your body do what it needs to do and you'll come out the other side feeling amazing. Your 19, sex is gonna come and go dude, but your P addiction is going to last as long as you want it to. Focus on getting yourself rewired and stop being so concerned about getting laid. Women are always going to be around. If they're attracted to you now, they always will be.

    The idea that you lose it if you don't use it is... ridiculous. What do people expect, their penis to fall off?

    Good luck.
     
  4. Well, flatline is actually a blessing for me because it's what helped me get through almost a whole month without much problem. And will it end? Yes, just recently it ended and how does it feel? Just one day you wake up and you get slightly more temptations and erections than usual, and it will slowly increase until you're basically back to normal attraction.

    And the "use it or lose it" philosophy on your penis is pretty stupid, it's not gonna just die off spontaneously like that and make you lose your interest in girls, and even if you wanna believe it you're getting erections during your sleep anyways. :p

    And good luck with the women! There's a long road down the path of life so you don't need to rush it, stay awesome and good things will definitely get to you. :D
     
  5. Brad111222333

    Brad111222333 New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks a lot guys. So two questions.

    1) will interacting with girls and flirting with them speed up the process?

    2) I have a girl I'm sexual with. Will using the "one way street method" work? Like only I pleasure her. So we cuddle, kiss, Etc. and I eat her out, finger her, etc. but she doesn't touch my dick at all. Will that speed things up and rewire faster?
     
  6. fapadonna

    fapadonna Fapstronaut

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    I'd like to be the first to congratulate you on your 90 days! keep it up
     
  7. Lucca

    Lucca Fapstronaut

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    You might want to take a break from being sexually active. Thats the best way to take control of your sexuality. If you don't, you're going to just give yourself more reasons to fap. And it's easy to say you won't go any further with the "one way street method," but its a lot more difficult in practice. Better to stay away from that. I think like fapadonna said, best thing to do is hit the gym - get your mind focussed on that.
     

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