Hey guys, I am currently 35 days into my reboot and the girl I was seeing and rewiring with dumped me about a week ago saying she "didn't feel the chemistry". I told this girl about my PIED issue and linked her Gary's Ted Talk. At first she was really receptive and understanding and said she liked me a lot and wanted to help me through it. This was great and motivated me. Unfortunately, despite me telling her about what I was going through, she was still very sexually aggressive and pushing for sex so I felt I had to go through with it or lose the relationship. Since she was so understanding I thought she would be OK with mediocre sex until I was rewired and my PIED cured. Our first attempt was on day 17 of my reboot obviously was not great, I could only get about 50% hard with extreme effort and could only stay hard with her on top, when she wanted to change positions I lost it and went down to about 30% and it was very hard to penetrate and not enjoyable for either of us. I couldn't finish. She said it was OK and we'll try again. A few days later we tried again. It was better this time but I was still only about 50% hard and couldn't change positions. We stayed in bed together for about 4 hours with lots of cuddling and some sporadic penetration. Again, I couldn't finish inside her so we finished ourselves off by masturbating. She said it was fine and she said she had a really good time with me and again said she really liked me. I texted her the next day and she ignored my texts which I found odd since we regularly texted back and forth since we started. The next day I texted her again. She was very cold in her responses and would only reply with 1 word. I asked her if something was wrong and then she said "didn't feel the chemistry" and she didn't want to see me anymore. I was and still am devastated as I thought we had an amazing connection... it is so crazy to see how fast she turned just because I couldn't perform. I have been in a flatline for a couple of weeks and now it has only gotten worse. I can't tell if my depression and anxiety is because of the flatline or because I was dumped by someone I thought understood what I was going through. I guess I am just posting this to serve as a warning to guys that relationships during the reboot can be very hard and a break up can be especially hard. I know that if I were to PMO it would help me so much getting over this girl... But I am staying strong guys because I also know that the root cause of my problem to begin with is this fucking awful addiction and all the problems it causes. Sorry, just needed to vent.