NoFap

  1. Welcome to NoFap! We have disabled new forum accounts from being registered for the time being. In the meantime, you can join our weekly accountability groups.
    Dismiss Notice

Earnest matter

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Pureheart, Jun 13, 2015.

  1. Jun 13, 2015 #1
    Pureheart

    Pureheart Fapstronaut

    172
    122
    43
    I posed this question already in another topic but it went kinda unseen.

    It is really awkward and kinda disgusting to write about it, but I will confess nonetheless.

    Well since I was into porn for some years I think I kinda developed a fetish.
    After some years, I think it started with 17 I started masturbating to gender bender and bodyswap porn.
    At first I was the guy but after some time I started to masturbate, imagining what it must be like to be the girl.
    Now, this is a pretty serious matter for my as I like my body and and like being male. I am not attracted to guys in the least and will surely never be.
    But somehow if I had to choose between beauty and strength I would go for beauty for sure. Now I am not exactly a sissy or behave like a girlie boy but I will have to admit that I have some "stereotypical female" characteristics like being compassionate and empatic but on the other hand I like typical male things like sports, martial arts etc....
    I seriously hope this is induced through PMO and not an deeprooted gender identity problem.
    So of course I stopped with it.
     
    Pureheart, Jun 13, 2015
    Pureheart, Jun 13, 2015
    #1
  2. Jun 13, 2015 #2
    IGY

    IGY Guest

    I am somewhat put out by your comment, "I have some "stereotypical female" characteristics like being compassionate and empatic". To have to admit you are a man, but you're also compassionate and empathic is crazy. These are qualities found commonly in men and have no correlation to being into a warped gender bender porn fetish! o_O
     
    IGY, Jun 13, 2015
    IGY, Jun 13, 2015
    #2
    Kurapika 2 and Pureheart like this.
  3. Jun 13, 2015 #3
    Pureheart

    Pureheart Fapstronaut

    172
    122
    43
    Well if you look at the "manly men" nowadays I would not say that.
     
    Pureheart, Jun 13, 2015
    Pureheart, Jun 13, 2015
    #3
  4. Jun 13, 2015 #4
    IGY

    IGY Guest

    Well, I don't know what sort of male friends you have or family members, but I don't see all these "manly men" you speak of. :confused:
     
    IGY, Jun 13, 2015
    IGY, Jun 13, 2015
    #4
    Kurapika 2 likes this.
  5. Jun 13, 2015 #5
    IGY

    IGY Guest

    Anyway, to answer the problem you raised... Fetishes triggered by porn fade when you stop watching porn (and fantasising about them while masturbating). You'll be OK.
     
    IGY, Jun 13, 2015
    IGY, Jun 13, 2015
    #5
    Kurapika 2 and Pureheart like this.
  6. Jun 18, 2015 #6
    Prakash Newton

    Prakash Newton Guest

    Thats true. you just have this pictures, thoughts and cravings in your mind. your mind is twisted to think differently. our mind is very plastic. it deforms regularly. first the cravings then compulstion then the thrill then the action and then the reward is what made this pmo an addiction. you stay out of it for 5 days and you will notice different. Be strong on the 5th 6th and 7th day because i relapsed on the 5th day. I have the same problem like yours. we can talk if you want to buddy.
     
    Prakash Newton, Jun 18, 2015
    Prakash Newton, Jun 18, 2015
    #6

Share This Page