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Ed caused by porn and over masterbation?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Corona310, Aug 22, 2015.

  1. Corona310

    Corona310 Fapstronaut

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    I am on day 15 of my reboot and I have to say I feel like I have stronger erections already ? I guess my question is will this help me in my sex life since I have failed before and i been pretty miserable ever since. There isn't a day I don't think about it and I'm scared to try again. Has anyone gone thru this ? Please share your story. I would like to feel like I'm not alone on this one.
     
  2. Booster

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    loads of people have had problems with their sex life pal, just read all the post on here and "porn on your brain".

    Its the reason why im here, soft erections and unable to ejaculate with a partner. As far ive read it will more than likely be the key if you have no problem with these acts on your own watching porn.

    you may also suffer from the "deathgrip syndrome" so google that sometime as well
     
  3. EdricKr

    EdricKr Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Yep, that's exactly what finally brought me here. A willing woman and no wood, seven encounters in a row. Then I noticed that even when viewing P, I was ejaculating without even getting hard enough for penetration. I'm four days in. So far, no activity at all there, it's completely shut down. Fortunately, she's patient.

    I used to dismiss the idea of PIED (porn-induced ED) but I'm pretty convinced now. Actually, I'm counting on PIED being "a thing", because a reboot is my best hope. I don't personally know yet, but I do know you're not alone.
     
  4. Booster

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    Yea im the same as you , ive had PIED for a decade now and only just found out it was a thing. just assumed i was broken. way to many accounts on here and other sites for it not to be a thing
     
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  5. James24

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    Ya same here I'm on day 17 now and I dunno , I think my erections are a little better but I definitely need the full 90 days. I failed many times with a partner . Cheers
     
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  6. EdricKr

    EdricKr Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Amazing support, guys. Thanks.
     
  7. g0lliver

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    Let me chime in too.

    I'm in the same boat, I've had several girlfriends, of whom I've only had sex with 3 of them. And that was after a lot of trying. Sex would be good, then suddenly, ED would kick in for a couple of weeks and there'll be no sex. Repeat this cycle. I fuckin hate it. Jumped into bed with a girl I really liked last month, she was in bed with me 3 times. Nothing. The final time I was with her I didn't even try.

    Sound familiar to you?

    I'm happy in a way that you all share this problem (I know that sounds harsh)... but a problem shared is a problem halved.

    Doing no PMO for as long as possible will help. I can feel changes already after 8 days. I don't have a partner at the moment... if I did I'd just be completely honest.
     
  8. Corona310

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    Thanks guys this really motivated me to keep going. Especially now that I found the girl of my dreams.. And I would hate for this to be a problem between our relationship. I will keep going ! Day 17 ! ... One more thing, edging should be taken Out of the equation as well right ?
     
  9. James24

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    Wow don't give up I am on day 17 too
     
  10. EdricKr

    EdricKr Distinguished Fapstronaut

    For a long time, I felt that edging was good training for being able to time my orgasm with my partner's. And maybe it was. But today, I think that edging for hours, over so long a period of time, eventually made it hard to climax when I wanted to. If it were me, I'd take edging out, just to be safe. (My reboot has no M, which obviously implies no edging)

    YMMV. Good luck! -E
     
  11. Go4it

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    Men! you are not alone, i have PIED too and ive been thru the same shit! today im starting a 90 days goal without PMO (my second time, 1st was months ago and didnt made the week) and doing kegel exercises, look up for them, i read a post here of a man that says that helps a lot and it is pretty easy.
    Anyway hope u recover men, i was weak last time and ive lost another few months of my life halfhappy or just depressed, DONT GIVE UP if we can get thru this then we can do anything we propose.
     
  12. Corona310

    Corona310 Fapstronaut

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    I am trying it is super hard man. Who would have thought the urge beats you rational thinking. How are you holding up?
     
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  13. Lets do this

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    Same Deal for me... I have finally had enough of this lifestyle and my dick not working when I need it to. Time to move forward with a positive lifestyle in order to fix my brain and body. I have been dealing with this condition for years and I am finally saying NO to PMO and to MO. Everyone stay strong!

    Lets Do this!
     
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  14. Go4it

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    Sorry for the delay man... Ive just relapse yesterday and now starting day 2 again, this is very frustrating but we have to keep trying and never give up!.
     

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