I really like a girl and she likes me too. We're going on our 1st date this weekend and I'm telling you I'm not able to get it up because of pied and ed. Till kissing I'm ok but what if she wants to go to the next level, guys I'm not able to have sex because of erectile dysfunction. Please help me what to do ?
NoFap, which is what you are doing now. Please do it for your girl, and try to take your NoFap journey seriously. Try not to relapse (and learn from your mistakes when you do), as well as cultivating healthy living habits to speed up your recovery. I know how you feel, but recovery of ED takes time. Please don't rely on medication to make yourself erect. ED is sign that your body is low in energy, and is trying to protect you from further energy loss due to PMO. So the only way to reverse this is NoFap and a healthy lifestyle. Good luck with your journey!
Abstain from pmo and take your time to heal. It may vary and depends on how much you watched porn and did mo in the past. How old are you?
Also you don't have to worry so much about getting intimate because chances are that on your first date you won't immediately sleep with her. I don't know her and you but you'll probably talk to each other and go on a coffee. Almost never (at least my experiences) sexual things happen on the first date.
Yaa guys, I'm thinking to quit dating and stop focusing on women all together because I'm not healed yet. Once I'm healed, ( because a lot of people actually healed from ED, so it is possible ), then I'll start dating again otherwise there is no point to it.
OK but be careful because if you isolate yourself from women it's gonna be even harder to abstain from pmo.
Will do men. All boys need initiation to become men regardless of your age. Also I am mentally weak that I can catch feelings for any pretty girl from time to time and I want that to stop. My affection should be valued and earned. I don't wanna be a snowflake. Let's do it men. Hopefully I will be able to share my success story in the future
You're right on this one. I also don't want to be engaged in any kind of relationship with a girl as this might affect my progress.
Definitely take some time before even attempting to go on a date but not the whole NoFap journey just a fraction of it. When ur ready u should go into the dating world with zero expectations and tell the girl you dont want to have sex yet and if u get the chance maybe be up front and honest with her. If she isnt down to stick around then it was probably about sex and she didnt like you for you and shes not the one bro keep it moving
