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Edging on a long streak

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by SeekingLife, Oct 12, 2020.

  1. SeekingLife

    SeekingLife Fapstronaut

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    So i’m almost 30 days and just yesterday, i almost ended it after edging to a photo of a girl i saw on IG. I know... i’m experienced to know not to surround myself with triggers like this, but something took me over and i decided to do it. Thankfully i stopped myself from busting.

    anyways, i just wanted to ask. Is it normal to have the feeling to blow a load within just 5-10 seconds of fapping? Is it this because i have 30 days worth of built up energy ready to release? Or is it pre mature ejaculation?

    This makes me scared that when i do end up deciding to have sex after, let’s say, 90 days... i feel like i might bust too quick.
     
  2. SynapticMagic

    SynapticMagic Fapstronaut

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    Premature ejaculation isn't a disease or an illness, it is simply a description of a event in which a man ejaculates in less than 15 seconds by some standards, or simply sooner than he'd like by others. If you're ejaculating sooner than you'd like, then you are prematurely ejaculating. Simple as that.

    Don't fret though, the answer is quite simple. You just need to decrease your sensitivity. This can be accomplished via sex, or via non-ejaculatory edging without fantasy or visual stimuli of any kind. I usually recommend my single clients make it 90 days without sexual activity of any kind before they consider training their stamina. That's usually enough time for them develop the skills they need to prevent relapse, and for them to have done the kind of psychological work necessary to recover.

    Either way, I also want to mention what you should do if you do ejaculate prematurely with a woman. Never make it a big deal. The moment you make it a big deal, she will believe it's a big deal. If you treat it lightly, even laugh about it, she'll believe it's something that doesn't usually happen and she'll also be attracted to your confidence. Most guys are embarrassed by this, if you're not then you've set yourself apart from other men. This is a perfect opportunity to show her that you're a good guy (big tip for this is to consider actually being a good guy).

    I prematurely ejaculated the first few times I was with my current girlfriend. I started joking about it and that opened the doors for her to make fun of it. She started saying to me, "you're my 2 minute man." I laughed at this. Did it hurt a little? Absolutely, yeah. However, I forced myself to find the humour in it and laughed along with her. The key thing you should recognize though is that she said that I was HER 2 minute man. Despite the premature ejaculation she was still defining me as hers.

    Now, after putting in my due diligence in stamina training, I have almost complete control over my orgasm and have even had a few non-ejaculatory orgasms. Put in the work, and you'll get the results.
     
  3. You won’t last much longer if you keep it up. Your building up for failure
     
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  4. alphakadabro

    alphakadabro Fapstronaut

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    You won't have premature ejaculation, if you never had it before. It is rare that this occurs from NoFap and probably has other factors involved. Going 90-days will simply improve every aspect of your sexual performance and life.
     

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