Erectile dysfunction paired with the evil of premature ejaculation

Ghulam Haider · Oct 20, 2019

Hello everyone. There's this question bugging me for a long time. I joined this community way back but then I left it. Today I decided to head back here because I'm having some questions. The thing is most people I see here suffer from Ed and delayed ejaculation. Which is Ofc the desensitization of the penis leading to prolonged time for ejaculation. Nofap makes the penis more sensitive and helps people with delayed ejaculation problem. I on the other hand was normal but then I started masturbation when I was 15, I'm 19 now. I used to go jackhammer on my penis and masturbated as fast as I could. In the beginning it took me like 10 to 15 minutes in my fap sessions to ejaculation when I was continously beating my meat. Means I don't have pe naturally my bad addictions caused it. But delayed ejaculation is caused by reverse of what I did. Trying to watch more porn and making the ejaculation longer right?
So now I'm at this point where I have pied and premature ejaculation. My point is nofap can help me with my Ed but it's just going to worsen my PE cause it will over sensitize my already sensitized penis right? So it can cure my one problem but worsen the other. So what do I do?
I read on the internet about this edging thing that helps desensitize penis and make u last longer. But then if I just edge and not ejaculated will it effect my ED? Or can both be cured at the same time. Please tell me I'm very depressed regarding this issue Lmao.
Thanks for listening

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Hi! Sorry to hear abour your issues. So as you know abstaining from pmo will be beneficial to you in general and although ive never had ED, It seems it will help that as well.
As for the PE, i only really experienced it during my first sexual encounters with my first girlfriend. We only dated several months and maybe had sex 15 to 20 times in that span. I cant remember all of our encounters but I remember a few where I literally would cum after like 3 strokes. Man she was mad!! Lol. There were a few reasons for this I think. One was she was sooo hott to me and i craved her so bad. Also i had been watching porn before and being a virgin i was so ready to have sex it was crazy. And i was just so turned on and ready to go, and when i would pmo, it would take me literally no time to cum.
After her, my next sexual encounters, i was able to last much longer. I had increased my pmo usage in this gap of time. And i think this was also the time that I discovered edging, as I would do alot of sex chats on line and watch porn for hours while trying not to cum because i was so into the experience.
So yea i think edging is what built up my ability to last longer.
Also if i knew i was going on a date and would be having sex, i would pmo before i left home so that i could last longer because the 2nd nut was always delayed longer.
I continued to pmo more and with longer edging sessions.
Im married now and it got to a point where on my day off I would litterally edge to porn/ chat, and cam almost the entire day, edging to the point where my balls hurt before i finally cum. I got to the point where during sex with my wife it was really hard for me to cum and i would literally have to try really hard to cum. So i reduced my pmo to a point where my timing was at a normal pace during sex.
Now ive quit pmo for 5 weeks and i cant last as long as I used to during sex with my wife. Lately theres been a few times ive had to finish her off orally because i would cum too quick.
With all this being said, i can confirm that M and edging do affect your sexual performance time frame.
So yea the issue is.... you should def quit porn. I would also suggest stopping MO. But that may make u cum even quicker. So I guess its a trade off. Im 5 weeks in, no pmo. I feel like im already cured from porn addiction. Im going to continue no pmo at this point. I plan to never go back to P, but I may get to the point where i try to start back MO in a very limited manner. Maybe one MO session in X amount of days. In the past MO has always led me back to P but i feel im getting to a point where im strong enough to not go back to P. Time will tell.
Since I havent done it successfully yet, I cant recommend it to you. And you will have to decide what you are comfortable with.
The main thing is you need to quit pmo now. Once youre over that, see how you perform and decide what to do from there. Good luck man.

Ghulam Haider · Oct 20, 2019

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Hi! Sorry to hear abour your issues. So as you know abstaining from pmo will be beneficial to you in general and although ive never had ED, It seems it will help that as well.
As for the PE, i only really experienced it during my first sexual encounters with my first girlfriend. We only dated several months and maybe had sex 15 to 20 times in that span. I cant remember all of our encounters but I remember a few where I literally would cum after like 3 strokes. Man she was mad!! Lol. There were a few reasons for this I think. One was she was sooo hott to me and i craved her so bad. Also i had been watching porn before and being a virgin i was so ready to have sex it was crazy. And i was just so turned on and ready to go, and when i would pmo, it would take me literally no time to cum.
After her, my next sexual encounters, i was able to last much longer. I had increased my pmo usage in this gap of time. And i think this was also the time that I discovered edging, as I would do alot of sex chats on line and watch porn for hours while trying not to cum because i was so into the experience.
So yea i think edging is what built up my ability to last longer.
Also if i knew i was going on a date and would be having sex, i would pmo before i left home so that i could last longer because the 2nd nut was always delayed longer.
I continued to pmo more and with longer edging sessions.
Im married now and it got to a point where on my day off I would litterally edge to porn/ chat, and cam almost the entire day, edging to the point where my balls hurt before i finally cum. I got to the point where during sex with my wife it was really hard for me to cum and i would literally have to try really hard to cum. So i reduced my pmo to a point where my timing was at a normal pace during sex.
Now ive quit pmo for 5 weeks and i cant last as long as I used to during sex with my wife. Lately theres been a few times ive had to finish her off orally because i would cum too quick.
With all this being said, i can confirm that M and edging do affect your sexual performance time frame.
So yea the issue is.... you should def quit porn. I would also suggest stopping MO. But that may make u cum even quicker. So I guess its a trade off. Im 5 weeks in, no pmo. I feel like im already cured from porn addiction. Im going to continue no pmo at this point. I plan to never go back to P, but I may get to the point where i try to start back MO in a very limited manner. Maybe one MO session in X amount of days. In the past MO has always led me back to P but i feel im getting to a point where im strong enough to not go back to P. Time will tell.
Since I havent done it successfully yet, I cant recommend it to you. And you will have to decide what you are comfortable with.
The main thing is you need to quit pmo now. Once youre over that, see how you perform and decide what to do from there. Good luck man.
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Thanks for the reply buddy. The thing is due to continuous masturbation for like 5 years now i have a little degree of ED. You dont have ED so idk if u can answer this but Nofap helps with ED and delayed ejaculation cos it will sensitize u more. so its good in that regard but ive gone like max 24 days without fapping and porn and during that time i would feeel like i'd come by touching my dick. Legit i was like im at the verge of cumming at almost anytime. Even without touching my penis. I even posted at thread here around that time idk it will be in this section down somewhere but everyone was like its fine you'll get good. But now i get it man, just like u said edging helped YOU to last longer. Since you quit that your timing went down and you busted quickly. So im guessing edging helps with PE but my question is if i edge and not ejaculate, will it have some effect on my streak or my ED? Like if edging worsens ED and nofap worsens PE by over-sensitizing then WHAT DO I DO?
should i like desensitize by edging first and then go to NoFap or what? im so confused right now. Cos both nofap and edging are like opposites and the issues i have are cured with both at the same time which i see as impossible so what do i do first?

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Erectile dysfunction paired with the evil of premature ejaculation

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