Everything is at stake... (Engaged)

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Ignacio1, Dec 8, 2020.

  1. Ignacio1

    Ignacio1 Fapstronaut

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    Hi I have been struggling for a long time with pornography and I recently got engaged to a girl that I love with all my heart... I'm so so worried that this will cause problems between us and that it will ruin it between us because we both are religious. I was introduced at a young age and even taken advantage of at a young age, one of my older friends used me and I didn't know what I was doing just following directions. Just need help, I want to stop with all of my heart for me and mostly for my fiance. I know that porn can destroy families I have seen it. I just need to share my story every day with y'all and look at other stories, thank you for reading and I hope your journey through this porn addiction goes well too.
     
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  2. hollyman

    hollyman Fapstronaut

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    Well if u want u can join some challange group, where you can share ur everyday journey

    Me too join some group chalangge
    Sparta and mandalorian
     
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  3. LeeUK

    LeeUK Fapstronaut

    Inviting a woman into your life when you have any addiction is unfair and a recipe for disaster, fix it.
     
  4. TS_7

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    Does she know about the full extent of your issues with no hiding?

    Mark 9
    21 And he asked his father, How long is it ago since this came unto him? And he said, Of a child.
    22 And ofttimes it hath cast him into the fire, and into the waters, to destroy him: but if thou canst do any thing, have compassion on us, and help us.
    23 Jesus said unto him, If thou canst believe, all things are possible to him that believeth.
    24 And straightway the father of the child cried out, and said with tears, Lord, I believe; help thou mine unbelief.
    25 When Jesus saw that the people came running together, he rebuked the foul spirit, saying unto him, Thou dumb and deaf spirit, I charge thee, come out of him, and enter no more into him.
    26 And the spirit cried, and rent him sore, and came out of him: and he was as one dead; insomuch that many said, He is dead.
    27 But Jesus took him by the hand, and lifted him up; and he arose.
    28 And when he was come into the house, his disciples asked him privately, Why could not we cast him out?
    29 And he said unto them, This kind can come forth by nothing, but by prayer and fasting.

    John 14
    12Very truly I tell you, whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father.
    13And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son.
    14You may ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it.

    So the question:
    how much do You believe it's possible to deal with all these issues?

    I would also advise you to check my topic for what might help you to make the process easier:
    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?t...for-nymphomania-and-anti-aphrodisiacs.296967/
     
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  5. Viking83

    Viking83 Fapstronaut

    Hey man,

    I think you made the right choice by coming to this forum and to battle your addiction. Opening up to people here can really help you. I would advise to start a journal, read about the effects of porn, and write about why you want to stop.

    Good luck on your journey!
     
  6. 30_Something_Explorer

    30_Something_Explorer Fapstronaut

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    Where do you join the group challenge thing? I'd like to take that up since I'm approaching day 3 and feel good. I think a daily check in would do me great.
     
  7. Ignacio1

    Ignacio1 Fapstronaut

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    How do I join a challenge group?
     
  8. hollyman

    hollyman Fapstronaut

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    @Ignacio1 @30_Something_Explorer
    on the forum, choose rebooting - Porn addiction , and then click event and chalangge (red icon) and then u choose what challange u suit best

    Tips:
    - look what suit you best, for example if u are an anime lover choose something like shinobi chalangge or super saiya,, lord of the ring , mandalorian u name it bro

    - look at the title make sure its open, because some challange are limited time and members, for example like no nut.november, its start at nov 1 and end at 30

    - when u choose and decide to join ask permission first (tag the admin or thread setter) make sure the admin notice you and accept you,, dont forget to check the rule of the chalangge

    - last but not least,, have fun bro
     
  9. 30_Something_Explorer

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    Cool thanks
     

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