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Existential Dilemma

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by theRegenerator, Oct 4, 2016.

  1. Oct 4, 2016 #1
    theRegenerator

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    Hey there! I've got somewhat of an existential dilemma. It's my day 40 of nofap hard reboot and I somehow relapsed today. Although I wouldn't call it a full-relapse. I'm a freshman in university for about a week and became close to one girl. We cuddle, kiss and stuff but no other action involved. I get some really strong erections while cuddling and kissing but immediately after that my balls hurt la omg.. I've been experiencing the hurting for a few days now and today I just emptied my balls cuz I couldn't take it any more. It feels better now.Would this emptying be considered a relapse and should I reset my days counter? I had no porn involved and no prolonged fapping.. It all took a few minutes in the shower by myself. Thank you!!!
     
    theRegenerator, Oct 4, 2016
    theRegenerator, Oct 4, 2016
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  2. Oct 4, 2016 #2
    Murphy MacManus

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    Ya it's a relapse.

    Part of becoming a real man means being able to deal with blue balls or unwanted erections without, well, relapsing.

    Deep breathing techniques, yoga, qigong, & meditation are really the only cure for blue balls worth utilizing. With daily deep breathing practices, as generally takes place if one meditates daily, blue balls will become a thing of the past as your energy will be flowing up your spine daily (if sitting in the lotus posture) which basically sublimates your sexy Qi into brain energy, energy that can help you be your own boss in life and no longer a slave to your genitals.
     
    Murphy MacManus, Oct 4, 2016
    Murphy MacManus, Oct 4, 2016
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