FAP was the solution, not the problem )

makes perfect sense, right? I mean think about it for a second.. thinking about it??

Most of us eventually started fapping because of the release and relief that it offered, AGREE? It was sort of like a prescription effect. Last time you had a cold, some sort of virus or infection, did you not take a prescription to make yourself feel better? probably so. We used, or use, pmo to serve the same purpose.. so why do we think that pmo was the problem instead of the solution? Probably because we associated many consequences to the PMO acts so naturally we thought PMO was the issue.

The real issue for many of us is that "crud" going on INSIDE of us that was just waiting for something to come along and give us relief!!! And when we discovered the relief (pmo), it was like hitting the jack pot. And of course because it worked, we would eventually abuse it to the point that we couldn't have even a little bit of it without losing control. So to sum it up, PMO was my solution to a problem, not the actual problem..

Now, follow me here... how long have you not had a fapping session? 2 days, 5 days, 2 weeks, 3 months? I bet you think you are that many days or months away from the problem, right?
wrong guys!!!!!!!! you are that many days away from the solution (or prescription) you used to treat the problem (that inside crap that makes being you suck!!!!).

The point that I am trying to convey is that stopping PMO is great!!! but that in itself will not change your insides (WHO YOU think you are) at the level to where you lose the desire for PMO. If you don't replace PMO with significant changes in your your life; activities, goals.. you will likely return to it ( I did!!)

Day 103 here and still growing!!!
Help others on here frequently!! it will be the bright spot of your journey.

-M

 

Great Abid.