I was at the gym today and there were 2-3 girls that I thought I should approach because they were all quite pretty. But then a lingering voice in my head said "no, mind your own business, keep your head down and get on with your workout.." It was especially so in the weights room, when there was a girl I so badly wanted to approach and she was the only female in there. In fact it's quite rare that any girl is in there whatsoever. I shortly changed rooms and that was the end of that for the time being. She might have been wearing earphones actually so may not have wanted to be disturbed. So I went upstairs and found another girl on the leg resistance machine but she seemed a little unapproachable but had a really shapely, toned figure. It was quite awkward at one point because the digital counter showing how many sets/reps I was doing was in the periphery was in line of where the toned girl was above. I couldn't stop looking at that cute, toned and quite peachy butt - my big, big weakness. The third girl was doing ab crunches next to me while I was doing core exercises on the mats at the end of my workout. And then the first girl came and joined. It was almost like they were saying 'I want you to say hi and approach me..' but I didn't. From all the self-help books and dating advice sites I've read, the tinder date recently, I feel like a cop out tonight. I just need to break that fear wall in my head and just believe in myself more. I'm just a little scared they'll say 'Fuck off' or something to that effect. And my confidence that I've spent so long trying to build up and have over the years and months would be shot. But I guess it's all a numbers game. Not everyone is going to like me or dig me for that matter.