Female Wet Dream? (Possible trigger!)

It's not the first time I've had a wet dream, I do occasionally (probably every few months) get them and I don't orgasm very often from sex with my partner which is my I'm doing this reboot in the first place. My last one was about 4 months ago but this one was very different. I had watched a very violent movie before going to bed (Cannibal holocaust - that is some sick shit.) there was a ton of rape in that movie, it was really horrid. In my dream I was brought into a BDSM playroom (I used to watch BDSM and humiliation) it was very violent and degrading, I woke up mid orgasm completely panicked. I don't why this happened I did have sex with my partner Saturday but I did masturbate to orgasm so I'm not entirely sure what's going on, the dream was disturbing but I only have them if I haven't had an orgasm in months. I haven't watched that kind of porn in months and I'm rebooting from masturbation not porn (I no longer watch porn - I never had an addiction to porn only masturbation and webcaming). My boyfriend is currently almost 90 days clean of PMO, I've only just started (I have a habit a masturbating during sex since it's the only thing that can make me orgasm and I no longer want to rely on my hand), I don't masturbate by myself or watch porn. I haven't in a very long time. I have decided with my partner to no longer please myself during sex or ever. I'm just surprised at how violent and pornographic it was. Is there anything I can do to to avoid this? Any advice would be great! Thank you
Sidenote: The dream was nothing like the movie (movie was released in the 70's)

Me and my boyfriend were also thinking of taking two weeks of hardmode (again) for his and my sake, do you think it's necessary?

 

I totally regret that movie and have avoided watching any kind of violent or overly sexual show which worked out well. I guess my movie junkie days of violence and gore should be cut off which is okay in my book. It seemed like a "I can say I watched it all the way through" kind of thing but not worth it (and stupid). No way. This is something I can, should and will control, thanks a bunch