Final bitch about this then stopping: He wanted nudes, not even sex!

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Tesslynne, Dec 17, 2016.

  1. Tesslynne

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    One of my online dating matches suddenly started to message me out of the blue yesterday and I think he did the day before too. He was saying he wanted to have sex with me and so and so on.

    But then later on he goes on to ask for nudes.

    Well, I got upset cos, some guys on here have said they used to pretend to want to meet a girl but all they wanted was nudes to fap to.

    I can't remember exactly what I replied in the end but it was a bit mean, something about "I hope one day YOU really want sex with someone attractive and all SHE wants are nudes."

    I forget the rest, cos I've deleted my convos to save space on my pitifully memory-poor phone.

    But, I actually felt upset enough to want to schlick about it. Yes, I know initially I thought he was only offering sex and I want more but it actually felt worse to think that he ONLY wanted nudie pix to fap to.

    (Which he didn't get.)

    Please don't do this to a woman ever and if you HAVE done it, PLEASE stop.

    I wanted to MO into oblivion cos it really hurt.

    Anyway, I'm shrugging it off now. Just wanted to have a final vent, I guess.
    So THIS is what my lovelife has come to? Being asked to be an unpaid porno star? Oh JOY.
    NOT!

    I didn't relapse. I didn't send nudes. And I'm going try and focus on better things now.
     
  2. NickMat

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    Congrats to you on this^^
    This is the problem with excessive masturbation, guys these days become too lazy to have sex they'd rather just beat their meat in the comfort of their own home, it's sad really.
     
  3. Use the pain as motivation to rise above that douchebag.
     
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    All of us here on this forum have the right outlook and mindset, but out in the real world I often encounter people who seem to have unhealthy views regarding sex. The type of behavior of the man you described is something I witness commonly (I go to a public high school). When so many people seem to just want meaningless sex and nudes it can be really discouraging. But fuck all those people. Self betterment and individuality combined with finding a long term relationship that goes beyond lustful mating sex is the key to happiness and fufillment in life. Keep improving yourself and don't settle for anything less than someone you know you can share a genuine mutual love with.
     
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  9. SuperLulox

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    Why should you feel bad about this?
    He is the one who is loosing the chance to lay in bed with a beautiful woman. He is the one who will loose hours of his time touching himself all alone, while you are putting yourself out there and improving as a human being.
    Please dont let this one idiot get to you, couse he is the one fucking up, not you.
    Ive seen you talk about online dating in other threads, (not stalking i just stumbled upon lol) and i think maybe it would be a good idea to give it up? Most people go on those sites just to fuck, and you clearly want something more than that.
    Just those things go and focus on yourself, and stay strong, you are on the good road!
     
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  10. Leonardo_001

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    WHAT A WEINER. I would never in my life ask a girl for nudes. Not being high and mighty because I'm still trying to break a PMO habit, but anytime a guy asks for nudes all he's doing is checking out "the goods" beforehand and that's just wrong.

    Happy that you made the right decision and kicked that butthole!
     
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  11. Tesslynne

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    Oh yeah, I kicked him to the kerb. He got no nudes but it's ironic cos as SuperLuLox says, you know, choosing nudes over the real thing? REALLY?!
     
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  13. Tesslynne

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    Ooh I LOVE this, Freee!
    I wanna not care so much what guys think, ugh!
    Way cool memes, thank you!
     
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  14. Samuel L. Fapsin

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    Knowing someone wants to hunch over and pump their shotgun to pictures of me would be quite satisfying.
     
  15. R1111444

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    girls make a man to just think about her body, this thing is girl wrong first , when man can get women easy they leave them easy ,,,, and this thing make girls living alone when they lost them younger and beauty
     

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