Yahoomadad
New Fapstronaut
Hi all.i am foot fetishist 37 old man.Is foot fetish curable? Can I treat it with help you , or should I accept it and try to treat porn addiction only?8
Foot fetish
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If your foot fetish came on during the period of your porn watching then it will fade away as you abstain and reboot.
Some have fetishes that go back before they viewed porn and these may remain even when the reboot is complete.
henry3526
Fapstronaut
As said above, if you've always had it, then you'll always have it. I've had a foot fetish and a being tied up during sex fetish since long before I ever watched porn. These desires will stay with me for life and I'll have to accept it.
The one good thing to come from it is that even though I've never talked about my fetishes with my wife, she absolutely loves foot massages, which for obvious reasons, I love too.
The one good thing to come from it is that even though I've never talked about my fetishes with my wife, she absolutely loves foot massages, which for obvious reasons, I love too.
SolaireofAstora
Fapstronaut
I got one since i was born, and im 100% sure ill die this way, no way to cure, just accept it.
Although, if you are like me, who likes feet way too much (a little bit more than pussy), than you need help (like i need).
Im on a PMO streak looking forward to cure my foot fetish PIED, not the foot fetish "per se"
Although, if you are like me, who likes feet way too much (a little bit more than pussy), than you need help (like i need).
Im on a PMO streak looking forward to cure my foot fetish PIED, not the foot fetish "per se"
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We all have arousal templates. Sometimes or often times the things that are part of our arousal templates are life long. An attraction to feet could be that. We get to individually decide if acting on that arousal is good or not. The deal with porn is it can distort our templates by introducing us to things we would have otherwise never seen. So porn starvation can help get rid of porn induced arousal. But a natural arousal—always been attracted to feet, lingere, large breasts, etc—could be lifelong. But what turns us on doesn’t mean we have to chase it. But I can accept it without condemning myself.
I've had a foot fetish as long as I can remember. I'm a foot freak and I love feet more than any other part on a woman's body. I love it, and so has every girl I've ever been with. It's not something to be cured, it is a blessing.
And if your significant other doesn't know about your fetish, you are missing out on a world of greatness.
And if your significant other doesn't know about your fetish, you are missing out on a world of greatness.
Yahoomadad
New Fapstronaut
Hi.thanks all for your reply.but i am masochist too.i like be slave of mistress.but my wife do not enslave me.i think pleasure of femdom is very more than normal sex or every things in world.i have pain in my soul.thus i am addicting to porn.in 12 years i was trying to stop porn and i can not.plzz help me to stop porn.i can not have femdom and footslavary in real world.thus stop porn is very difficult.
Have you talked to your wife about your fantasies? You're a fool if you haven't. That may be blunt, but it's true. If your wife loves you she won't be turned off by your fantasies, as they are relatively harmless. She will almost certainly be hurt by the fact that you've been married for however long and haven't been honest with her, but if you make it clear that you were just afraid of judgment and not hiding it from her in a malicious way, she'll likely forgive you. Women are generally very willing to indulge their men's sexual fantasies, and more often than not it can be a new and exciting turn on for them. For the most part, women are naturally sexually submissive, so in the past when I've gotten them to explore their dominant side it's been a huge turn on for them and in the end, they can never go back. My most recent girlfriend claimed to be 100% sexually submissive. When I eventually told her about my femdom fantasies, she was apprehensive at first only because she didn't feel confident in her ability to deliver, but once she got into it she learned to like it even more than being submissive, because she cared about me and wanted to please me. Your results aren't guaranteed, but you have everything to gain and nothing to lose by opening up to your wife, especially if she has nice feet. I don't understand how guys with foot fetishes can be in relationships where their partner doesn't know about their fetish. That is literally the most absurd thing to me in the world. Hell, I can't even date a girl if I don't like her feet, and everyone I've ever been with finds out within a week. It's a rule of admission for me.
