Frequent Wet Dream, low libido, ED

Hi,
I have been not pmo ing for a while 150+ days, for the last few weeks I have been having some attraction to real life females, but I am also having wet dreams too often like after 3 or 4 days. Which I don't like, I think I also leak some semen during urination, I urinate often too. I don't see anything erotic during the dream or feel the orgasm, but just wake up wet. Orgasm feels like urination, haven't felt or orgasmed in long while. then I don't feel horny or be motivated as much, I still feel flatline most of the time, and even though I wake up with morning wood often, most of the days I don't have any erotic thought. Like I find beautiful girls aesthetically pleasing, but not having erotic thoughts or erections during the day.