45 days in Still nothing. I "had" sex for the first time today. Could only get a 50% erection, never aroused... could only reach orgasm through handjob. Tried with sex for 10 min. I'm feeling so depressed right now. why o why
Hi. Don't be so hard on yourself. Maybe you're just too concerned about it. Its natural have issues with erection when you're stressed. I suggest just put your erection out of the equation. Enjoy each other and dont care about penetration. Its not about goals, it should be about fun. Although - if you feel 100% relaxed and attracted to your SO and still cant get erection, you should probably consult with your doctor as it may be a somatic issue. But no matter what dont let it drag you down. There are more important stuff in life than rock solid erection. Love is not only about sex, sex is not only about penetration and penetration is not only about orgasm. Stay strong. Keep you in my thoughs bro.
So great, good news. You can do it. Just let your mind cool down, dont stress about performance and enjoy it. You can do it
My friend, dont give up! I exactly know what you feel because I passed through it too unfortunately. Keep fighting,with time its gonna be better and healed, if its related to PMO. And dont stress yourself about it, be cool Its gonna be allright!