1. Welcome to NoFap! We have disabled new forum accounts from being registered for the time being. In the meantime, you can join our weekly accountability groups.
    Dismiss Notice

Got new boyfriend, cant perform at all, back to fapping

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by ikolis, May 7, 2020.

  1. ikolis

    ikolis Fapstronaut

    7
    5
    3
    Hi All,

    I just got a new boyfriend like a week ago and I cant get it hard enough to penetrate. I guess, 15 years of specific technique masturbation, always watching more and more kinky porn, and general overall shyness, can really mess you up.

    I had stopped masturbating for like 5 days after I met him, but I guess that is nowhere near enough to get it properly hard.

    Has anyone here ever recovered from this? 15 years is too much I think.
    Also, now I collapsed and masturbated again 3 times in a single day and with porn and using the same shitty technique that has nothing to do with how real life sex works.

    Thank you for reading.
    Cheers!
     
    drkarim likes this.
  2. Sab1167

    Sab1167 Fapstronaut

    14
    82
    13
    let me know your age, height weight. any types of medication? and your gender?
    specify your problem.
     
  3. ikolis

    ikolis Fapstronaut

    7
    5
    3
    27, 170 cm, 5"7, 64 kg
    No medication.

    My problem is an extreme form of ED which makes is not possible to have proper intercourse and eventually achieve orgasm. I think is also caused by porn not just Masturbating, because the types of porn that arouse me are not regular porn anymore.

    Thanks
     
  4. Sab1167

    Sab1167 Fapstronaut

    14
    82
    13
    I think its due to your less sensitivity, you haven't mention your gender yet, and do you have any other health issues like heart problem or dibeticts?
     
  5. ikolis

    ikolis Fapstronaut

    7
    5
    3
    Sorry, I dont know why I missed that. I am a guy/male. I have no health issues whatsoever.
     
  6. Hang in there and keep trying (to do NoFap). What ever you end up doing with your new boyfriend, this will get better if you can give your brain a break from porn and give your dick a break from excessive masturbation. But it may take some time, maybe a lot of time. You can't undo 15 years of masturbation by giving it up for 5 days.

    If it helps at all, at around 15 years of frequent masturbation, I found myself having trouble getting fully erect and I could almost never achieve orgasm with my partner even though she was super hot and great in bed. I never put 2 and 2 together and kept on masturbating. It's taken me years to let go of the M habit, but I can say that after about a year of really trying to stop the masturbation and really not touching myself at all . . . I get really strong erections and have had some mind-blowing orgasms from having sex with my new girlfriend.
     
    ikolis and Supination like this.
  7. ikolis

    ikolis Fapstronaut

    7
    5
    3
    T
    Thx for the support :)
     
  8. ikolis and +TenPercent like this.

Share This Page