Groping How do you react.

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by Swissgirl, Dec 25, 2017.

  1. Swissgirl

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    it happens a lot to me in public crowded places. I had guys touch my ass “accidentally, or my boobs in buses. I usually freeze which is not the ideal reaction cause some guys then do more. I am used to it but sometimes it bothers me.
    Girls. How do you deal with it.
    Guys are you doing this and why. Do you feel invited or what?
     
  2. Star Lord

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    Kick the guy in the balls
     
  3. Ongoingsupport

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    I'm so sorry to hear that, you should not have to get used to it.
     
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  4. Swissgirl

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    I think women can relate or confirm this
     
  5. Ongoingsupport

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    I understand it's a reality you have to deal with all the time, what I'm saying is it's wrong and they should not treat you that way.
     
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  6. I would never grope someone. If I were you, I would ask them what the fuck they think they’re doing really loudly so others around hear it and realize what’s going on.
     
  7. Ongoingsupport

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    @Swissgirl do you see it happen a lot where you live, like do you think people in the crowd would help you if you speak up?
     
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  8. Star Lord

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    I would gladly implant my fist through these guys skulls who do this kind of shit.
     
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  9. Star Lord

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    Never “get used” to this kind of unwanted assault.
    You don’t exist to be exploited, groped or worse. You are a human being, you have different sexual organs but that doesn’t mean you are a object to men.

    You need a boyfriend who will protect you.
     
  10. Ongoingsupport

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    Maybe the buddy system so you are not alone, you need to be safe as well. Also, for more response from women you might try posting in the Women in Reboot section of the forum.
     
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  11. Swissgirl

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    I would never dare to say such thing loudly. I rather whispered he should stop.
     
  12. Swissgirl

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    I know they should not. But it happens a lot. I like dressing sexy. That’s why.
     
  13. Dr_prof

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    I can see what your problem is then swissgirl.....
     
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  14. Swissgirl

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    What is it
     
  15. Dr_prof

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    Well you dress sexy. It has the desired or rather undesired effect.
     
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  16. Star Lord

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    A girl is entitled to dress sexy, to feel confident in her body.

    Clothing is not an invitation for sexual advances.

    This mentality Is pathetic and you need a slap if you think clothing is a invitation.
     
  17. Swissgirl

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    I certainly feel this to bevthe trigger for them. And I love to play. But they should not act disrespectful
     
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  18. Dr_prof

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    I agree with you. It’s not right that they assault you.
     
  19. Star Lord

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    The way I see it. You are entitled to wear whatever you want. If it’s what you feel happy in and wear it to feel confident and attractive.
    Guys shouldn’t assume just because you look sexy that you are telling them without words “touch me”.
    These kind of guys are scum and need a beating. It’s not gentlemanly and they are pigs.
     
  20. You should be more assertive