If you're traumatized, feel constant shame and guilt for no reason, feel stress, but you have the looks of Jude Law at the same time, your point of view about your attractiveness won't matter... You won't be attractive.
*waits for @RedPillRebooter to answer back* You've done a lot of talking about how sexy you are.. post a selfie and let us fapstronauts be the judge of that lmao
I think attractiveness is based on opinions. For example, I don't find Mila Kunis that attractive as most guys do. Some girls think Bruce Willis is really hot and some not. Besides I don't think it matters that much as long as you're confident. I don't have much experience with women but I do notice that when I have low confidence, women rarely speak to me (I'm also really attractive, have been called Brad pitt and Orlando Bloom). But now I speak to them and they speak to me, probably because of increased confidence. From my experience, attractiveness in guys is overrated. Just show that you take care of the looks you have been given and stay confident. That will give you all the benefites you need.
I don't want the girls to relapse bro. On a more serious note I don't wanna post my picture on an anti-pornography website sorry it's embarrassing
@aingdk11 @aguy100 @Shugi Shugi @RedPillRebooter Please post photo for scientific purposes. You may hold the cure for ugly.
I for one have found it quite easier to let others know about my addiction in real life. It has helped me greatly and they are supporting. I have a close friend who is doing nofap with me in real life. He doesn't post here, but we both agree that our lives are changing for the better. I think if there is a lesson we can take from this thread, the rebooting process is much easier when you are open about your addiction and understand that it an ugly part of who you are. Also, I'm way hotter than redpillrebooter
I would say in terms of looks I am about a 3 or maybe a 4 but I'm tall and striking looking. No one I've seen looks anything like me. Think of Casey Neistat in terms of not being good looking at but kinda appealing due to his confidence and being comfortable within his own skin. In terms of the hottest women I've attracted, not a 10 no but a strong 8.5 on a number of occasions. I have never attracted an ugly woman and definitely not a woman who's a 3 or 4 like myself.
Yes, but calling yourself horrible looking when you aren't is too. I feel comfortable enough with my body to say I'm not terrible.
Guys call themselves attractive because other people say they are attractive. You just don't wake up one day and go like "Yep, today I will call myself attractive" No, it's almost a life-style. You are born, a cute baby, sandy blonde hair, family members start driving you to places, take you to amusement parks, you go to grade school, get girlfriends, they start hiding lego blocks in their underwear and want you to fetch it, you grow older and the cycle continues. I doubt "Rate my picture" qualifies, there are many people that hate taking pictures and have years of built up confidence they don't have to prove anything. Besides, anyone is allowed to think they are attractive.