He told me he preferred Brunettes...

I knew everything about his porn preferences. I wasn’t jealous about it. I didn’t think it made any difference.

I didn’t care until it replaced me.

 

From my experience and other people I know on both ends of a down relationship ... once you set yourself free from the terrible work managing a situation and the adverse effects on yourself ... that’s when you are free to live.

If you want to be a caretaker and not “live” for yourself then keep at it. If your still having these long talks and trying new approaches 1,2,5 ,10 year later and you except that okay.

Don’t let your fears of kids, finances, your parntnees well being leave you 55 years old saying wtf

People can tell you all day long about freeing yourself and what that means but until you experience it yourself it won’t make sense.

Funny comedy on divorce

 

Thank you so much for this.
You have no idea how important this was for me to hear. I'm so broken going through this.

 

How do you actually know it's nothing but the truth? How trustworthy are polygraphs?

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-human-beast/201303/do-lie-detectors-work